Let's be a success story and put the random back into RAOBJ. Lol Nice, normal, handsome dad type who would really enjoy putting today’s responsibilities on pause and having a wonderful escape with a fun woman. Feel like making my day? 6 feet tall Average build and weight Silver fox Genuinely fun with a sense of humor Open to various possible get-together scenarios
You: Normal. It’s weird that being normal is such a big ask nowadays. Lol Just want to have fun, and a RAOBJ is your idea of fun. No drugs, please. Just not my thing. I’m not judgmental about 420, but it does bother me when people wreak from it. I don’t drink. I don’t mind if you do, but I’d rather not spend time with someone who is drunk.
I’m hetero. Please don’t message if you know you’re not my preference.
Pros:
Not creepy
Actually sane
Genuinely nice
Educated and good with conversation; witty and funny
Nice d*** (admittedly, I'm biased 🙂)
Race isn't an issue for me. Hopefully, race isn't an issue for you. I mean, it's 2024...
Age isn't an issue, either, but must be legal
I'm respectful and respectable. I respect boundaries (unless you tell me you want me to disregard yours)
I'm the type of guy who is cordial and polite in public; the type who you'd never think is harboring thoughts of what I wish we could be doing behind closed doors, but would never cross that boundary or say anything inappropriate without a clear indication that you're interested.
I'm pretty go-with-the-flow. I'm cool with getting right to it, or taking some time to chat, get to know each other, and warm up to the fun.
If you're interested in a one time thing, okay. If you'd like to keep in touch and have an on-call friend for an occasional escape, okay.
Cons:
I'm relationship material, but I'm not interested in a relationship.

Overall just a good time, and we can make it what we want to make it.