Yeah, I'm married. It's not a good marriage or a happy one. It's complicated but I'm not in a position to leave the marriage so it is what it is. It's a dead bedroom thing as I said, deadest bedroom of all time. I haven't had sex in a long time. A very long time. A depressingly and embarrassingly long time.

That's why I'm here. I'm hoping to find someone sympathetic to my circumstance for a consensual, discreet, intimate encounter, someone not crazy or just crazy enough have sex with me, anyway. Maybe it's a one time thing, maybe if it all goes we'll we do this again sometime, we'll see how it goes, right? I work (a lot* and don't really have time for fun or leisure or anything really and obviously my marriage is a broken mess. I'm just really wanting to feel alive again, to have some fun again. That's all. I'm not a serial cheater, never done this before, not a creep or weirdo, just a lonely, neglected guy who works too much and doesn't a lot in his life and wants to have a little fun, have a little attention, feel a little affection.

Unless you're offering to host I'd of course be willing to provide accommodations in the form of a hotel room and absolutely agree to meet in person before any private encounters.

About you: 20's? Blond? Not a sticking point, just a preference. I'm pretty open about things.

Here's the "about me" part:

WM, 47, 5'10", 180 lbs, clean, safe, ddf, don't smoke or drink, shaved head and beard (well groomed, not bushy and unkempt, I do not look like a hipster lumberjack) that was once ginger but is now mostly grey. NSFW pics in my post history if one were curious.

So there it is, that's my distress call...anyone willing to answer?