I won’t make this post too long but I posted here couple of times before and messaged people on here too. I got a message from my last post and she lives 15 minutes away, perfect I thought.
We exchanged socials, sent pics, and video chatted for extra verification. We talked for 4 days non stop before meeting up. She was able to host so I drove to her place. Her apartment complex has a public park so we met there, talked and kissed for a bit before heading over to her unit. As we’re walking there she mentions she has a boyfriend and that they’re looking for a third guy so the boyfriend can sit and watch. I asked if she was serious and why she didn’t mention that before meeting up. She said she was scared it might turn some people off. As we’re talking we got to her unit already and her boyfriend was at the door eagerly waiting. I told them that wasn’t the plan and why the hell it wasn’t mentioned before meeting up. She apologized and said please to try it out. I respectfully declined and just straight up left. As awkward as the interaction went with her boyfriend standing there and both pressuring me to go along with it, I’m glad I stood my ground. I’m not the one to kink shame or judge but at least discuss it before wasting anyone’s time.
Well lesson learned and now make sure to talk about what is expected before meeting up. Just thankful the drive wasn’t further than 15 minutes at least🤷🏻♂️
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