Hello ladies of RAOBJ!

We are all on this subreddit for a specific act but a lot of time it comes down to timing, comfort level, and plain old chemistry. It really isn't rocket science but I understand trying to get all 3 of the above can be a challenge! I can't do anything about timing but hopefully I can address the other 2.

With regards to comfort level, I will put myself out there out a regular, normal person who just enjoys his fellatio.

Now I know what you are going to say! "bm2u, EVERY man on here says he's normal, or is a nice guy, or has a 10" cock. How can I believe you?!"

Excellent question! Well, first thing I will tell you is a little about myself. I am Asian. I am 40 years old, 5'10, and 175 pounds. I do NOT have a 10" cock.. It's only 9".. Ok, I'm joking! You can see I like to not take life too seriously. But for full disclosure, my cock is average sized, which is to say 5-6" (best guess, I don't measure!). As for being a nice or normal guy, I say give me a chance in a quick conversation and you can make that judgement!

What I can offer that may differentiate is this. I give options!

• Simply get together for a drink or two and see if we gel. If so, perhaps we can go somewhere more private. I am staying in a hotel in the Xinyi district for reference
• Not 100% confident in your skills or have questions? Or simply want to improve? I am your man! I can tell what I feel makes for a great blowjob and I will even sacrifice and give you a hands on tutorial on me. First hand feedback! Now you say, "Psh, every guy would offer that!" And you would be right but would every guy be patient and talk you through the finer points as opposed to getting overwhelmed in the moment and just try to push deeper down your throat? It's harder than you think to hold back when all the blood rushes out of your head!

I think this post is long enough but I didn't address the third - chemistry. If you are a reasonably nice and easy going person, I think this will resolve itself. If you are shy, I'm here to help you! I want the end result either being one of two things. One, you love giving head and it's a thrill to meet someone new and/or out of town. Or two, you leave feeling much more confident in your skill so you can have your future partners, boyfriends, and husband telling their friends that damn, I get the best blowjobs at home!

So what do you have to lose? Ok, you probably lost about 5 minutes of your life reading it but I will say it is MUCH more entertaining than most of the posts here. It may be too long but it's definitely different!

I'll be in town next week only ladies!

TL:DR - You want to give a blowjob, I want to get a blowjob. But the nuance is above!