I tried this before and met some very kind and supportive people. And I appreciate everyone who reached out. But nothing has really materialized, the chats all kind of fizzled or we weren’t looking for exactly the same things.

And now I’m feeling lonely and down again…

So… I’m trying again… I’m hopeful that I will eventually find someone that I connect with.

Hi. My name is Joe. I’m a 35 year old white man. I’m 6 foot, 250lbs, brown hair, blue eyes, and glasses. I’m obviously free of STDs and I’m fully vaccinated.

I have a full time job, I live alone, I own a car, and my family has a boat that we keep on a lake that I can use.

I enjoy traveling, both in the states and abroad. My favorite place that I’ve been is Tintagel England. It was beautiful.

I also enjoy hiking, cooking, boardgames, D&D, and occasionally video games.

But realistically, on any given night, I’m probably just watching Netflix or something.

People tend to like me. But I’m the kind of guy that people enjoy being around but when I’m not with you, you probably don’t think much about me. Does that make any sense?

The only real compliments I’ve ever heard from anyone is “oh, he’s such a nice guy” or “you’re so nice”.

All of this to say, I live a fairly normal of boring life.

However, I’m still a virgin.

I have female friends. But I can never seem to take it past the friendship level. Even on the rare occasions when I work up the courage to actually ask one on a date. I always got turned down.

Maybe I lack confidence. Maybe I’m just not all that attractive. Maybe I’m just too introverted. I don’t know.

But that’s why I’m posting here. I’d love to find someone I connect with who would be willing to meet and teach and/or explore with me. At any level.

Just once in my life I’d like to feel as if I’m desired by someone.

If you’re near me, great. If not, well, I have vacation days and no plans for them at the moment.

I’d also prefer to chat here or another app for a while to make sure that we get along. And before meeting I’d like to do a video call to help ensure neither of us are catfish. I’d also be willing to share pics of myself as I know looks matter.

Anyway, I’m not sure what else to include right now. If you have any more questions or if you’re interested feel free to message me.

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

As a bonus I’ll take a leap and share a few pics of myself since I know attraction matters…