Years ago when I was curious about guys I replied to a post like this and had a fantastic first experience. It wasn’t a sketchy blow-and-go hookup. It was a very relaxing and respectful encounter which is what I needed to truly enjoy myself. I want to pay that forward and give you, a curious guy, the same kind of first experience I had.

This is not going to be a sketchy, awkward fumble with some random guy. I want you to be able to enjoy whatever fantasy you’ve had about your first time exactly how you want it with a chill, down to earth, normal guy. A typical guy-next-door with whom you can actually hold a conversation with and enjoy each other’s company. Someone who will focus on you and your pleasure and who gets gratification from seeing you enjoy yourself. A guy who is open-minded, non-judgmental, and maybe a little kink friendly because you need that. This is what I’d like to give you in a safe, discreet, and fun environment.

Reciprocation is not expected or required. If your curiosity is just about receiving, that’s completely okay. If you want to try giving, even just touching, you can have that as well. We'll do as much or as little as you feel comfortable with. I'm even open to meeting up more than once if you need to take things one step at a time.

Discretion is probably very important for you, so I can guarantee a totally private and discreet experience. If you are married, attached, or just really anxious about people finding out, you can relax and enjoy yourself completely with me.

About me…

• I’m a handsome guy with an average body and a muscular, masculine build.
• 5’8”, 190 pounds
• I work out 4 days a week
• I'm fit, healthy, non-smoker, and STI negative
• 420 friendly
• Very chill, low-key, and positive personality.
• Love talking about music, sci-fi/fantasy movies, Britcoms, art, cooking, technology, EV cars, astronomy, hiking, and whiskey!

About you… I’m not going to make a list of physical requirements. I care more about finding a really nice guy who’s genuinely interested in doing this. Naturally, it’s important for both of us to be attracted to doing this with each other so if either of us decide we’re not really into it, we will just say so and no hard feelings. That said, I do have a couple of requirements: You should be a non-smoker (tobacco), have impeccable hygiene, and STI negative. Ideally your personality is low key and relaxed. You are confident in yourself and your masculinity and the thought of doing this doesn’t threaten that.

As for hosting, I’m not able to provide that unfortunately. But don’t let that be a deal-breaker. The best possible place for you to enjoy this will be a hotel. It’s private, discreet, and I promise I’ll be spending a few hours with you to make it worth the trouble.

If I’ve sparked your interest, send me a message and let’s chat. I am not looking to rush into this or give a quick blow-and-go. Let’s take time to get to know each other first and talk about your needs and boundaries so that I can give you the best experience I can.

If you read all of this, include in your reply the secret password “shenanigans” so I can weed out the flakes. :)

Thanks for reading all of this and I hope to hear from you soon!