Well I hope this catches the interest of a few likeminded people.

I'm 22, 5’7, caucasian, brown haired, moderately athletic build, average weight more on the lean side, brown eyes, currently living in North Carolina. I’m consistently employed, I enjoy the usual outdoor activities such as taking hikes, going kayaking, camping, and also snowboarding, although I’m terrible at it. I have about five years of BDSM experience.

As for the type of Dominant I am, I do exhibit certain elements of the Gentle Handed Dominant, because I pay particular attention to someone's needs and am very giving in that sense. On the other hand, I also find the firm hand is also a useful guide. The gentle touch to reassure and care for my partner, and the firm hand to discipline and ground my partner as well.

I am an open book, and will answer and consider your questions thoughtfully. My commitment is that I will provide the space for you to explore and pry during our conversations without judgment.

I also understand that Dominating someone does not mean that you are not allowed to ask questions or that you must blindly follow directions. You are allowed to ask, you are allowed to understand, and you are allowed to question if it does not feel right to you. Submission is earned and it is my responsibility to earn that. Your safety and comfort is paramount to me above all else.

Now for the big question, what am I looking for?

I’m looking for a probably impossible situation. I’m married, my wife and I have an open marriage agreement. Her and I can have one safe, reliable, and understanding partner each, outside the marriage. I’m seeking someone who I can call a friend, chat with at least a few times a week schedule permitting on both ends. A submissive who I’m compatible with sexually and who enjoys similar kinks and limitations that I have. One who respects my marriage and can understand when I am unavailable. But that does not mean they allow themselves to be neglected by any means. But someone who can understand the reason to my absences and life as well. I also find it incredibly attractive watching someone talk, especially if they are sharing their passions with me. It feels like there is a fire burning inside me whenever it happens. I’d be overjoyed that I would be there to help you grow. To explore and figure out who you are. I would love to be the guide you turn to if you are unsure about something and share my experiences, thoughts and concerns. I would love to have you tell me all about your day, tell me about what annoyed you today, tell me about what did or could make your day. I would enjoy being able to fall into routine with someone and be able to chat about anything together.

If you’ve made it this far, congratulations, I’d like to award you this gold star ⭐️, you’ve earned at least that much 😌. If you feel like this could be a fit for you then feel at liberty to reach out and introduce yourself, I don’t bite unless you want me to.