I am 49 Professional in the IT world that is an experienced Dom and I write erotica in my spare time. I am looking for a woman that is passionate and willing to try new things.

If you're new to this, that's not a problem, as I enjoy mentoring and teaching. But you may be wondering what this all entails, as you're used to a traditional relationship?

It's probably best to start with what this is NOT:

• an "arrangement" where I pay you to hang out
• a 24/7 or TPE thing (we should both have our own independent lives)

However this might be for you if you ARE in any of these situations:

• you're kind of seeing someone but something is just ...missing

• you're tired of always being in charge and in control and want someone to take over once in awhile - show you a thing or three

• you enjoy teasing a man in authority and showing respect when called out

• you want to explore your submissive side in a safe way

Do any of these sound like you? Then let's get to know each other. But make sure you read the post carefully, and send a polite, detailed reply that tells me a bit about yourself, your experience, and what you hope to gain from this.

Final note is that I can get busy, but rest assured that I will at least get back to you if you take the time to send a message that shows you read this post thoroughly and have thought about this.

When you reply tell me your favorite flavor of ice cream and what you did over the holiday weekend.

My limits are:

Bathroom stuff Gore Underage Animals Anything that leaves a permanent mark

Everything else is on the table and love including:

Oral (giving mostly but also receiving) CNC Bondage FMF Free use sluts Facials Knife play (not cutting skin) Ice play Wax play Making my subs expose themselves to me in public Outfit control Orgasm denial and edging Toy play Etc etc