I just wanted to tell, that I got a new relationship and I am moving back and forth between the 2 locations. I got also suddenly 3 kids and somehow I just don't have the time yet, to take raoc back on the plan. My boyfriend is saying that it is due to the settle down period so it should be better later, but also: I don't have the feeling to request Xmas cards as I am not at home all of the time and I don't want to request postcard to his address as my name is not there yet as I am not living there. (He asked if I want to put on it, but I don't really want yet. He is asking me also for a month or something to move in, but I am not ready yet. The children need time to get used to me as I have rules and I need to have time to get used to them as I have just gotten them with a package. Anyway. I read your post and I am sending out also my very few xmas cards, but yeah. This year I can't manage it. Also, the children are coming every other week and OUR xmas card is just halfway through. (We painted some and bought extra one, but now we have to write them and get the children to sign them.😅) I am also very thankful btw for my birthday cards as for the cards of my boyfriend. He was really happy to have cards from "my postcards-friends group". I will make the thank you post this month for them.