Looking for a slow burn online affair with the potential for meeting IRL. Lets chat, get to know each other, satisfy our minds, and hopefully the rest will follow.

I do love to chat, am a good communicator, and understand there may not always be the time to chat, I don't expect replies all the time. Besides, sometimes it's just nice if there is something there for the other person when they are back online. I am prone to the odd wall of text, but that's just me, I don't expect the same.

Chatting here on reddit is okay, I've never had any problems with it. Always happy to move to another platform if there is a connection, if we click. I have Telegram and whatsapp. Not a fan of snapchat or kik, sorry. Voice notes are cool, it's nice to hear the other persons voice. Phone calls are even better, they're the best, but understand they're a bit harder to organise.

If we do click and establish a connection, always happy to meet up socially to check each other out, somewhere open, public and safe. And I'm not the type to expect anything to happen, if there is no chemistry I just move on, I'm not one of the self-entitled pricks that thinks they're owed something. Distance isn't a problem for me, I like driving and travel a lot for work. It's always nicer when there is someone at the destination though.

What do I look like? What do you look like? Happy to exchange photos, not straight off the bat, but once we've actually started chatting. I will just say I'm tall, full head of brown hair, brown eyes, fit, healthy, and active.

What am I looking for in a woman? Someone confident that knows what they want and knows how to get it. Someone who will share with me what they're looking for. We're most likely doing this because something is lacking, so lets share what that is and make sure both of us have our needs and desires fulfilled. Someone to create a bubble with that is about us - fun, laughter, exhilarating, there for each other. No spouse bashing. Someone who is actually looking for this and has the time to devote to it. Don't want the, "just looking to see what's out there".

Like here, and all the other sites/apps out there, plenty of guys to choose from, but if I've piqued your interest, please don't hesitate to send me a chat or DM.