Hey there, I'm really wanting to cuddle with someone a lot for quite some time now. Specifically, I'm looking for a girl to be a cuddle friend with benefit (steady relationship in the future if it works?), but let's take time to know each other first and I can understand if you don't want the benefit part or even just wanting to be a friend only and I will respect it (consent is number one first and foremost).

I just really like the idea of having someone lay on my body, falling asleep on my lap or hugging me and then waking up next to me; body warmth and skinship really does wonder to someone's happiness and mood. I'm also a big fan of lap pillow, doesn't matter whether it's me laying my head or girl laying their head on my lap while playing with hair

Ahem anyway, ideally, I'm looking for a nerdy girl around my age (like 24-36 years old) who happens to be into indie gaming scene (or just gaming in general), enjoys a bit of light board games (my favorite is splendor and sushi go), and also enjoys finding and trying new food places (I prefer asian ones usually) to go to as well as some online chats (can do voice and video when comfortable) and other outings like cinema, events (maybe even kinky/adult events? I always wanted to try them), etc, from time to time. Big bonus if you are skinship heavy kind of person as I can (and like to) be very skinshippy (is this even a word?) with someone I'm comfortable with, especially at home because I grew up in a family with fairly big amount of skinship

As to what I can offer, I can offer cuddling and lots of them, gaming partner, someone to go outing with, someone that can listen if you want to rant (be it about accomodation, work, etc), homemade Indonesian/ Chinese/Japanase cooking, a place to crash in the city (if we're close enough)

About me, I'm 32 (about to be 33 soon) Indo-chinese male located in the CBD area, primarily into video gaming (bonus if they are anime styled, but not required), and also into a bit of cooking and gardening. 100% introvert and mostly a homebody, but no problem with going out from time to time as well. Usually I spend my weekend at home, either playing games, cleaning the place, or maybe looking at DIY project, but also going to the gym a bit (sometimes) and the Victoria market

Feel free to look at my profile and older posts so you can get a better idea of myself (I check reddit very sporadically, hence why there are months gaps sometimes). My topic of interests are in technology (in electricity power and recycling), doing recycling, and another recent interest is watching documentary movies (I watched A Compassionate Spy and Beyond Utopia recently, they're both great IMO) and AI image generation for personal use (as I don't condone people stealing other people's art)

A trivia about myself is that I can put my leg above my head

PS: I know I posted M4F, but anyone else that has an interest in the indie gaming scene and strictly wishes to be just friends, I'm okay with that too!

Another PS: While I'm happy to share a picture, I will not do so until I know you a bit better first, so please don't ask for a picture straight away. If you want, we can meet up early in or around Melbourne Central so you can see me in person directly though I imagine it's best that we chat first and get to know each other a bit first