Hi, we are a couple that have been together for over ten years and monogamous. We’ve flirted with the idea of bringing someone into the bedroom for a bit of fun and after talking through all of the must be this and must be that we’ve narrowed it down to quite a very specific list.

We would rather not do anything with anyone than to settle because to us we’re not doing this for anyone else just ourselves.

This is our list:

Must be happily married (and prove it somehow) and have your own life going on. I [M42] feel there’s more chance of a happily married guy having more of a vested interest in keeping everything discreet than a single guy. Discretion isn’t at the top of this list by accident.

Be from another state and willing to travel to Melbourne occasionally. We would like someone that we could organise a date with even a few months or more in advance.

I’m not a cuckold! But I am fair. To get what I want I’m willing to let my partner have some fun also, I can weirdly handle one guy if it’s the same guy. I’m not into just random strangers. We would love to cultivate an easy going long term arrangement where your down to help us with some fantasy’s that we both share now and new ones we come up with in the future. Our perfect person would be ideally already seeking what we’re offering. A super discreet long term situationship with us a kinky couple.

Age: between 35 - 60

Weight: not so much of an issue for us, we’re both slim to athletic.

Height: also not an issue

Ethnicity: white, African American, European, (sorry Asian or Indian guys we’re not racist at all just not our preference)

Size: Above average size, prefer girth over length. We would need you to verify.

We’re happy to exchange pics with the right person just not everybody so we would be vetting you first and if we like what we see we will go from there.

Thanks ✌️