40f/out of a long-term relationship in the past year and a half.

Right after splitting with the long-term partner I ended up meeting and falling in love with a married man...oops. We consider ourselves FWB and see each other a couple of times a month. It's pretty unlikely that this will turn into anything exclusive or serious, so I've been casually dating other people a bit in addition to seeing him.

During this casual dating I ended up hooking up with a guy who considers himself a cuck and it was really fun. He liked that I was seeing another guy who was more dominant than him, and the other guy liked the idea of me fucking someone else.

Sadly, that cuck is a flake and doesn't have the availability to see me as often as I'd like, so I thought it might be fun to chat with other guys who are into the cuck thing and see if it might be a fit.

Basics:

I'm around 40. I'm decently attractive. I'm overweight but not drastically so. I live a bit outside of Seattle. I have kids that I have 50/50 custody of. (You will not be meeting said kids, just thought I'd mention it.)

What I'm looking For:

A consistent FWB thing. Emotional compatibility is equally as important as physical compatibility. Not looking for anything serious and I will be continuing to see other people. Would love a guy who is more submissive and would be open to watching me get fucked by other more dominant guys, would also like to having sex without other people present (although it can be fun to share videos and phone calls with my other dude while we're 1:1) Please don't be married - sorry - I already have one of those and it's complicated enough (especially when it comes to availability)

I'm not interested in fucking a LOT of people, but would like to have a few consistent people to hang out with, have threesomes, etc.

I'm politically progressive and a feminist and those things are important to me - conservatives need not apply.

Need to know/potential dealbreakers:

I have HSV2. I've had it for a long time and never given it to anyone. It doesn't affect my life much (I take meds and don't have outbreaks) but transparency is of the utmost importance to me. I get tested for other STDs regularly and currently do not have any other besides the herp of the genital variety.

I'm done having children, I don't want to live with anyone and it's unlikely that I will ever get married again. (Again, I'm not looking for anything serious, but I do know that sometimes life happens and things turn serious when we least expect it, so again, trying to get it all out there.)

Anyway, never expected to be writing an ad like this, but here I am. If you're interested, let's connect! Pro tip: initial messages that are creative/interesting/friendly usually float to the top of my inbox.