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36 [M4F] CA #LosAngeles - A Safe Space for Laughter, Connection, and More
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duderanch21 is a male age 36 looking for a female in California
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Hi there!

I’m searching for someone who truly gets what I’m looking for—a connection that’s equal parts fun, flirty, and meaningful. At the core of it, I’m seeking that feeling of being wanted and desired, shared moments of genuine chemistry, and the kind of banter that keeps us both on our toes. This isn’t my first rodeo, and I’d prefer it’s not yours either. I value someone who brings a little sass to the table but also knows when to be a good listener. Bonus points if you’re quick-witted and confident enough to call me out when I’m wrong. Trust me, I can take it!

When it comes to attraction, I do have a soft spot for curvy women, but I’m open-minded and appreciate beauty in all ages and backgrounds. It’s more about the connection we spark than fitting into any specific box. Ideally, you’re located in or around Los Angeles so meeting up is simple and convenient. My preference is weekday meetups—they’re easier to plan with my schedule, but I’m open to evenings if we can make it work.

Meeting doesn’t have to be all about physical intimacy (though let’s not shy away from the possibilities). Sometimes a good conversation over coffee, a relaxed lunch, or even exploring a new spot in town can be just as meaningful. I’d love for us to create a safe, respectful space where we can both feel free to be ourselves—whether that’s venting about life, exploring new experiences, or just enjoying each other’s company. If it feels right, I’m happy to arrange a hotel for some fun or split the cost and even travel a little if needed.

A little about me: I’m a tall, husky guy with a flexible schedule, especially during the week. I love playing tourist in my own city, discovering new restaurants, and I rarely say no to a well-crafted cocktail. I’d describe myself as witty with a sharp sense of humor—I enjoy making people laugh and am always up for a little playful banter. While weekday meetups are easier, I’m not ruling out evenings; they just take a bit more coordination.

I also have a deep appreciation for honesty, mutual respect, and communication. Creating an environment where both of us feel valued and comfortable is my top priority. I’m not into pressuring anyone into situations they don’t want to be in, and I expect the same in return. If you’re a parent, that’s an extra win in my book. Having kids gives us a shared understanding of life’s ups and downs, and it’s something I genuinely value.

If you’ve made it this far—thank you! I’d love to get to know you better. To break the ice, share your favorite dad joke (because who doesn’t love a good laugh?) or tell me about your go-to drink or movie. No expectations here—just an open mind and the hope that we click. Let’s see where this takes us, whether it’s friendship, fun, or something more.

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