Appearance and personality:

33 year old bearded and bald creative neurospicy guy (AuDHD) with both daddy, nerdy, and sassy energy. I love to cook for both myself and other people, and I appreciate pastel goth witch vibes for those who have better luck at thrift shops than I do. I also like building a collection of colourful corduroy pants and funky shirts!

What I’m looking for:

I am looking for the type of fwb and/or dating connections that involve giggles, cuddles, movies, going on random tangents, being able to laugh at ourselves, and open for the connection to deepen as well. I am queer-friendly and love folks who identify their bodies as big, fat, curvy, bbw, ssbbw, or whatever labels you choose. Personality traits I appreciate in a partner are that they like to ask questions and are investigative, self-aware, advocate for themselves, not afraid to take up space, also nerdy, sassy, interested in how things or ideas work, artsy or appreciates design and aesthetics, quirky and/or darker sense of humor that's still thoughtful.

I am non-monogamous with a live-in partner (we date separately), and happy to answer any questions about boundaries and communication. I have no children and do not want any in the future (hello vasectomy crew!). Safety and protection is important to me and I’m happy to provide clean STI records as well.

Other Interests:

Music nerd with an engineering background who doesn’t have a problem with parallel fifths, noodles around with guitar here and there, and likes to imitate Cher from time to time.

Aside from sharing my favorite recipes such as soups, risottos, pastas, Indian food, etc, I’m also a big fan sharing pleasure through terrible puns such as:

“What was Pavlov’s hair so soft? Because he conditioned it!”

“Did you hear about the restaurant on the moon? Great food, but no atmosphere.”

Etc etc