Greetings, I'm Theo. That's not my real name, but it's what my friends call me. For privacy, I will share my photo and my name in our first messages! I apologize in advance for the lengthy post, I'm a writer and a self published author so it's hard for me to be succinct when it's about a topic I like.

About me:

6'1, white male. I am a big guy. I'm losing weight (down over 25 lbs so far) but I'm still a chonker! I'm located in Northeast TN. I'm poly and partnered. I am a massive nerd. I'm talking video games, dnd, the whole nine. I immensely enjoy nerd culture in general, and learning about other people's passions. One of my biggest hobbies (and my only source of income) is my writing, and I actually run D&D games for a living! Most of my work is for my dnd campaigns, but I write horror, fantasy, and adult smutty fiction. I've teen told I'm quite good!

I love animals, and one of my top ten desires is to be able to hug a bear without getting mauled to death. I don't know how that would happen, but I want it to. I'd also pet a moose or a hippo if they also both weren't incredibly dangerous land animals. I'm an animal lover, but I'm not an idiot.

I've been called funny quite a bit, and I love to make people laugh. I'm a bit of a people pleaser, but I definitely stick up for myself. I will never force anyone to do anything they don't want to do, and I won't ever send unsolicited inappropriate images.

Consent is extremely important to me, and I always ask, especially when getting to know someone, before touching them or asking anything risque.

Note: I am an atheist, and a leftist. Politics are important to me but don't have to be to you. It's okay if you're witchy or spiritual though. I find it interesting, even though I don't believe in it.

I'm disabled, and I don't make a ton of money, but I make enough to make due. I don't make much, but fortunately I have a lot of disposable income because I have very few bills. I'm currently studying programming, game design, and cloud engineering to have better employment opportunities. I'm unlikely to want children, but if you are truly special it might be a possibility one day. Ask me about it.

I am a switch. That means I like being both dominant and submissive. This isn't a kink subreddit so I won't elaborate on that here. Suffice it to say I have a good amount of kink experience. You can check my other posts (on my profile) for more information about that.

What I'm looking for:

I am not picky with physical appearance at all, or age (18 ) for that matter. What matters is how we get along!

I want someone who is searching for something real. I try not to rush into real relationships, as it hasn't worked out in the past. Preferably you will be local, but I am ok with Online as long as we have plans to close the gap at some point, especially if we visit occasionally. I do have a high sex drive, but thankfully, due to the nature of poly relationships, you don't have to have a high drive!

Hopefully you are nerdy, nice, genuine, and affectionate. You appreciate kind words and gestures, and reciprocate touch. I want to find a real connection, someone I can call my genuinely best friend who is always in my corner, and I always have their back too. I value kindness and empathy to a large degree.

Please be good at communication, and reciprocate the energy that you receive in messages and in person. I'm not asking for novels or 24/7 texting, but I like to send a good morning/ good night text and see how people are doing generally speaking. Constant one word answers and no effort, while having me carry the entire conversation gets old after a while.

If you've read this far, by all means, send me a message! I'm open to chatting to see if we click! :)