I'm a plus-size guy living outside Toronto. I'm married to a great person with low energy, which means I have a lot of time to myself and needs that aren't being met, both sexual and a need for more conversation and connection. For that and other reasons, our relationship is open. I spend hours alone most nights and would like someone to talk to, connect with, and get naughty with on a regular basis. If you're also relatively close to Toronto and can host, something in-person is a possibility, but something that stays online is fine with me too.

About you:

We'll probably connect most easily if we're somewhat close in age - similar interests help a lot - but please be at least in your mid-20's

Please be someone who's generally positive. I know neither of us will always be happy, I've learned I don't fit well with someone who's predominantly negative

If you're equal parts intelligent, funny, serious, light-hearted, and sexual, we'll probably be a great match

It's great if you have interests and passions and want to share them with me. Bonus if we have some common interests, but a curious person who gets excited about something is really attractive.

Appearance is secondary to personality to me. I'm body-positive and open to someone of any race and shape; if I'm attracted to your face and personality, I'm sold

About me:

I work in tech

My main social activity right now is playing board games, but I'm also hoping to join a band soon (I play keyboards). If you're also musical or love board games, we'll probably be a great fit

Other interests include video games (want to game together?), trivia, museums, listening to music, and going to live shows.

My musical tastes are VERY diverse. I go to the orchestra and jazz shows, but also have seen artists like the Smashing Pumpkins, The Offspring, Depeche Mode, and Duran Duran in the past couple years. Want to share music recommendations?

I love learning new things and trying new things. Tell me what's interesting in your life, what you're passionate about. I'll at least be excited with you, if not join in

I'm a switch, fairly kinky, and love to please. Orgasms are best when shared, and I love creating anticipation and buildup

Chats or DMs are both welcome. If we connect, let's move off Reddit; there are far better platforms for communicating. Discord's my preference but I'm open to others.