Hello I am a 38 m living in Texas I'm married with kids. We have been together for over 16 years since we were in our early 20's she was 19 when we met and people change a lot in that amount of time. We are currently separated and neither of us are fighting to fix it.

I am not looking for a situation where we just have phone sex a few nights and there is nothing after that. Though I do have a deep voice and am very very good at painting a picture. But there is a time and place for that. I want to spend the time getting to know each other. I'm not on here looking for nudes. I have been there and done that and know what I am looking for.

I have a good fulltime job I own a business I do part time on the side. And am starting another small business. I used to run restaurants and have made a career change so that I have more time in my life. I'm very motivated to do better and have a good life. But I have been held back for sooooooo long.

I am looking for a motivated person. Someone with drive and ambition. I need someone who can banter who knows who they are and are comfortable with who they are. I do not mind older at all but am not looking for a 20 year old. You need to be ok with the fact I have kids. Someone who likes to talk.

I have plenty of time to spend to get to know you. I'm not looking for someone who has a hour at this time of day to talk I'm free most of the day and I do understand that we all have jobs and lives for sure so I'm not expecting that we talk all day everyday that's not reasonable. But there is no reason we can't leave a random message and the other person respondes when they have a chance.

I am a goofy, yet serious guy. I love to laugh and joke and be goofy. But I also am serious about certain things. I love to learn everyday I am constantly learning about new things I love using my brain. I have energy and like to hike, ride bikes, watch movies, play games card, board, or video. I love to golf and I also play disc golf, I ride a onewheel.

Sorry this was so long but this is a picture of who I am and what i am looking for. I hope I am able to find you out there. I'm not afraid to carhc feeling with each other and I'm not afraid to move on with that's where things go. Have a great day and let's talk soon!