Hey!

I'm looking for an emotional fluffer, can be a constant. I just want someone whom I can talk to daily and get to know more, connect.

Basically, a guy who can emotionally fluff me up and he'd need it as well. No strings attached, just some things that have to be sorted out and properly informed about. But if it leads to a relationship, definitely open to it.

Why would you want someone clingy?

It's because with clingy guys, being an emotional fluffer would never seem to be a chore. They enjoy doing it. They like providing attention as much as getting it.

If you're from the PH:

I'm usually up at night. I like the quiet time. So, expect late night conversations, late lunches. I'm up in the morning but I'll probably nod off because I'm gonna be up all night.

If you're not from the PH and you have to check timezones:

I can fit your sched, be -12 or -8 hours of a time difference. Since my bodyclock is flipped, and yeah, I keep my clock on 24HR setting.

I'm from the South of Manila, Philippines but I grew up in the East. Not too far south though. But I am open to long distance stuff too.

I would love to have someone new to share memes with and the occasional ranting. I enjoy intelligent conversations and conversations as if we're high as a kite. I'm quite horny too, so there are times I'd inject innuendos to conversations and I hope you can respond adequately.

Spontaneity is key. It'll be amazing if you're a great conversationalist.

ABOUT YOU: (Important stuff are in bold.)

● I really hope you're clingy. I would love that. Reason for that is, clingy people tend to focus their attention if they like someone, I need that. It's a low-effort thing for them.

● It's okay if you're significantly younger or older, as long as you're not ageist.

● Totally fine if you won't send pics, since I don't think pictures would have any bearing to just talking over the phone. I'm just mainly asking for voice calls. I like it old school. I won't send you mine (my pics) unless I'm already comfortable to, so please refrain from asking me for some on the get-go. So no pressure, I don't need to know how you look like, I don't even care how you look like. I just want someone whom I can talk to.

● You can be married, in a relationship, single, or confused about whatever/whomever you want in life, I won't have judgments towards you. I'm not looking for anything more than just having people whom I could talk to on the daily. Someone who I can be myself with.

ABOUT ME:

● My profile says a lot about me, so, you can check it out to get a gist of what you're about to delve into. Yes, I'm pretty bored right now, and I honestly just want someone to have while I transform my boredom to something that could make someone happy.

● Once you've seen my profile, it ain't all about s_x , I hope you know how to read between the lines. If my music taste matters, I can send you links to my playlists. The movies on my bio are the movies that best describe me and my life.

● I'm unhappy recently and I hope you're fine with me venting out about my life. It's quite dark, and I hope you're fine with that.

● I like voice calls. My voice is tolerable, I do voiceover work professionally. PLEASE DON'T ASK ME FOR SAMPLES. I find that tad annoying. I'm not demanding, just have the decency to inform me if you're unavailable.

● For those who want to know how I look like: I'm not a looker. Let's leave it at that. I have pics on my TG account, but they're discreet.

Updating this part: I may look good to others, I may not look good to you. It's just that I exist not to please anyone so don't be disappointed if I ain't the one you expect because I'm not here to please you. I'm not fugly. I'm not thin. I'm not fat. I have a mix of Chinese-Spanish traits. Figure it out yourself if you really wanna know how I look like.

● I write for a living (and NO, I don't write novels, short stories, or poetry, or fiction in general). Used to work in media, now I'm in a related field.

● I had to add this, coz recently I've had guys who had misinterpreted how I am. So I'm innately sweet, not really clingy please don't misinterpret how I would treat you as "real feelings". I would inform you if they're real or not. If you do catch feelings, tell me. I won't be cruel to you.

Again, this is just me wanting to turn the boredom that I'm in into making someone happy--needed, appreciated, and cared for, and I hope he reciprocates.

Someone who would want to enjoy the feel-good perks of having a relationship without being completely tied up and without the complications.

I'm more open to be intimate, but not s_xual--if you get my drift, I'm open to aural pleasure, I like that a LOT. But since we're not in a real relationship, I'm NOT OPEN TO ACTUAL S_X.

I want to be absolutely clear on that: NO REAL S_X.

Please don't start the conversation with anything s_xual, I'd appreciate that A LOT. The "we can talk about anything" isn't my consent for you to say literally anything to me. I hope you get what I mean.

I've encountered people who do not practice proper etiquette and just blabbed their way into starting a conversation with me with no regard if what they're saying is TOO INVASIVE or INTRUSIVE to start off, OFFENSIVE, or just downright UNFILTERED. AGAIN, do not take "we can talk about anything" literally. It's not a pass to leave your manners outside the door.

I hope I find people who are sensible and interesting to talk to. As regularly as possible, since I struggle with object permanence with those people who just say "hi" when they want to. :)

I prefer intros other than "hi", "hey", "hello". Please don't be uncouth.

This post might be long but if you had the time to read it, I appreciate that you're keen with details.

These aren't really "requirements", I'm not picky. I'm just saying in a more elaborate manner: I hope you're a good person.

PS. Don't mind the downvotes if there are any, my ex tends to downvote on my r4r posts. He really does.

I prefer to use TG, I don't have Discord or Snap. Sorry.

See you in a bit.