TLDR: I won’t reply to 20 somethings or low effort replies. Don’t be pushy. And no, I’m not in SF yet. And if the post is still up I’m still looking so don’t ask if I’m still looking.

I’m a white BBW in my mid-40s who will be visiting San Francisco soon. I hate having a hotel room go to waste so I’m looking for some company. I’m a plus sized woman: ~317 lbs, a size 22/24/3x. I’m mostly butt and belly. I love my body and am very confident in my own skin. I’m also normal and sane, funny, smart, gainfully employed, and pretty charming. I love to laugh and I enjoy getting to know people.

I’ll be in a nice hotel downtown. You’ll have to come to me. I will be an available evenings for the most part, so if you can only do daytime meets, it probably won’t work.

I am married. He knows. He is not coming with. If you’re open to photos or videos (for personal use) that would be awesome. He likes sharing and seeing me enjoy myself.

Personality is key since I have to like the person I’m sleeping with. Please be smart and funny and engaging. My mind has to be turned on first. Please don’t make me carry the conversation all the time. Be close to my age, 10 years /- is a good start. No one under 30. I’ve tried it. It’s always disappointing. I like men closer to my age for various reasons, but experience (in life and in the bedroom) is a large part of that. Don’t be a selfish asshole in bed. Selfish guys are the worst. I like to spend hours in bed; I’m not a quickie on your way home.

I like men on the taller side. Dad bodies or a sturdy build is great. I’m less likely to break you. Beards are sexy. Well-endowed is a big plus (pun intended) because my big ass gets in the way. Having a short recovery time also gets you bonus points because I’m like the energizer bunny. I love cuddling as well. But personality is more important than physical characteristics.

You have to love fat girls. That’s important to me. I want to be comfortable with you.

I appreciate replies that tell me about you, and why you’re interested, and give me something to work with. Photos (not your dick) are appreciated so we can see if there a physical attraction. If I reply, I’ll share photos early as well.