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r/R4R40Plus

37,795 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Dec 27, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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M4F F4R F4M M4R Austin, TX M4M R4R 48M Illinois UK SoCal location KY South Carolina T4M TM4M F4F TF4M NB4R TF4R Midwest USA TF4F CA Victoria, BC T4R NYC Kasilof, Alaska Oakhurst, California middle Ga Germany Oregon view more
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to r/R4R40Plus by BigBoobsandInches
4 days ago
45 [TF4F] NYC trans beauty looking for new friends (women, cis and trans please!)...and more!
TF4F TF4F
to r/R4R40Plus by NewMaximum5523
6 days ago
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57 [TF4F] #Philadelphia
TF4F TF4F
in Philadelphia, PA
to r/R4R40Plus by BigBoobsandInches
6 days ago
45 [TF4F] NYC trans beauty looking for new friends (women, cis and trans please!)...and more!
TF4F
to r/R4R40Plus by BigBoobsandInches
1 week ago
40 [TF4F] NYC trans beauty looking for new friends...and more!
TF4F
to r/R4R40Plus by BigBoobsandInches
1 week ago
40 [TF4A] NYC trans beauty looking for new friends...and more!
TF4A
to r/R4R40Plus by redHairsAndLongLegs
3 months ago
39[TF4M] Canada. Please be ~37-55 and geek ///passing as female, live as female since 2000s
TF4M F4M
in Canada
to r/R4R40Plus by TheGabbyLin
3 months ago
52 [TF4A] Capital Region NY/Online - Capricious PolyAm Fae GILF Seeking Light Connections & Fun!
TF4A
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by treelovingspirit
4 months ago
30 [TF4M] #California - wanting to meet Mr. Right.
TF4M TF4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by yourfuturewifey4ever
4 months ago
40 [TF4R] [East Coast/US/Online] Hi! I think I’m the one you’ve been looking for…
TF4R
in East Coast/US/Online
to r/R4R40Plus by prettykyla01
4 months ago
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36 [TF 4 TM] looking for a connection
TF4TM
to r/R4R40Plus by treelovingspirit
5 months ago
30[TF4M] #California - hoping to meet a gentleman.
TF4M TF4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by heartofabrokenstory
5 months ago
40 [TF4F] #Seattle - Stoner Trans Woman Looking For New Partners
TF4F TF4F
in Seattle, WA
to r/R4R40Plus by yourfuturewifey4ever
5 months ago
40 [TF4R] [East Coast/US/Online] You wouldn’t scroll past your soulmate, would you?
TF4R
in East Coast/US/Online
to r/R4R40Plus by yourfuturewifey4ever
6 months ago
40 [TF4R] [East Coast/US/Online] Hi! I think I’m the one you’ve been looking for…
TF4R
in East Coast/US/Online
to r/R4R40Plus by yourfuturewifey4ever
6 months ago
40 [TF4R] [East Coast/US/Online] Hi! I think I’m the one you’ve been looking for…
TF4R
in East Coast/US/Online
to r/R4R40Plus by yourfuturewifey4ever
6 months ago
40 [TF4R] [East Coast/US/Online] Hi! I think I’m the one you’ve been looking for…
TF4R
in East Coast/US/Online
to r/R4R40Plus by yourfuturewifey4ever
7 months ago
40 [TF4R] [East Coast/US/Online] Hi! I think I’m the one you’ve been looking for…
TF4R
in East Coast/US/Online
to r/R4R40Plus by yourfuturewifey4ever
7 months ago
40 [TF4R] [East Coast/US/Online] Hi! I think I’m the one you’ve been looking for…
TF4R
in East Coast/US/Online
to r/R4R40Plus by redHairsAndLongLegs
8 months ago
39 [TF4M] Canada. Do you like romantic bookworms? //passing as female, live as female since 2000s
TF4M
in Canada
to r/R4R40Plus by yourfuturewifey4ever
8 months ago
40 [TF4R] [East Coast/US/Online] Hi! I think I’m the one you’ve been looking for…
TF4R
in East Coast/US/Online
to r/R4R40Plus by Kalingast
8 months ago
40 [TF4A] - Looking for Male/Female/Trans Female
TF4A
to r/R4R40Plus by lataronja
8 months ago
41 [TF4M or TM] #SE Michigan Looking for Friends and Possible Relationship
TF4M TF4TM
in Michigan
to r/R4R40Plus by treelovingspirit
9 months ago
30 [TF4M] #California - Wanting to connect with a gentleman.
TF4M TF4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by treelovingspirit
9 months ago
30 [TF4M] #California - hoping to meet a gentleman.
TF4M TF4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by yourfuturewifey4ever
10 months ago
40 [TF4R] [East Coast/US/Online] Hi! I think I’m the one you’ve been looking for…
TF4R
in East Coast/US/Online