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r/R4R40Plus

36,762 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 14, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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M4F F4R F4M M4R Austin, TX M4M R4R 48M Illinois UK SoCal location KY South Carolina T4M TM4M F4F TF4M NB4R TF4R Midwest USA TF4F CA Victoria, BC T4R NYC Kasilof, Alaska Oakhurst, California middle Ga Germany Oregon view more
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to r/R4R40Plus by darwitchm
2 years ago
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
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to r/R4R40Plus by mynamegeoff22
45 minutes ago
43 [M4F] #Michigan Guy Here. Ladies, I Have a Question For You. Spoon to The Eye, One Has To Go! Yoga Pants, Tacos, Stanly Cups, or Target? And Since It's Fall Time, Or Pumpkin Flavored Things...
M4F
in Michigan
to r/R4R40Plus by Kain316
1 hour ago
45 [M4F] #Orlando, Florida [NYC native] looking for a vibe
M4F M4F
in NYC native
to r/R4R40Plus by PeskyHuman5040
4 hours ago
39 [M4R] #Australia -but relocatable. Sub dog seeks forever owner.
M4R M4R
in Australia
to r/R4R40Plus by TopResort3346
4 hours ago
42[m4f] divorced uk guy just woken up in my new place after night 2. Still feel a little lonely
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Edinburghmadness
4 hours ago
40 [M4F] Scotland / Anywhere - Scottish guy looking for cool new interesting people to talk to while working from home. Anyone around?
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Sage_S0up
4 hours ago
41 [M4F] US/Online Introvert who enjoys good conversation
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by ThisIsIt8181
5 hours ago
43 [M4F] #London #Online – Ready to Flirt, Play, and See Where It Leads?
M4F
in London, UK
to r/R4R40Plus by ThrowREasyDonut9655
9 hours ago
43 [M4F] #Houston --- I wonder if Reddit posts would get more traction if they had faces?
M4F
in Houston, TX
to r/R4R40Plus by superraredonut
10 hours ago
44 [m4f] East Coast/online. Boring night at home. Let’s talk
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by CourtObjective9999
10 hours ago
64 [M4F] #Manhattan/Bayside/Nassau - Well educated white male seeks a well educated and intelligent female slut that gets it. It’s more about your brain than about your body parts. Intelligent females on average tend to be more fun in bed because they are very creative and full of surprises.
M4F M4F
in Manhattan/Bayside/Nassau
to r/R4R40Plus by Puzzled-Holiday-1039
10 hours ago
47 [M4F] #DFW, TX - All the good titles were taken so I got stuck with this one
M4F M4F
in Texas
to r/R4R40Plus by Lifeat70
12 hours ago
70 [M4F] #California. Over 40? It Is Not All Over But You Have To Act! Reach Out.
M4F M4F
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by TopResort3346
13 hours ago
42[m4f] #uk divorced guy finally in his new place but its quiet and lonely..
M4F
in United Kingdom
to r/R4R40Plus by shed4000
13 hours ago
44 - [M4F] - Neurodivergent ? Maybe you will get me ? - UK in Asia by looking around the world
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by 1peterpan1
13 hours ago
47 [M4F] #MA #Boston Fortune favors the curious. Lets talk!
M4F
in Boston
to r/R4R40Plus by HealthcareDirector88
13 hours ago
38 [m4f] looking for my fairy tale lady….this executive is tired of waiting for you! Yes you!
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Forsaken-Theory-125
13 hours ago
41 [M4F] #BC Canada - Looking to Chat
M4F M4F
in King, Canada
to r/R4R40Plus by AbitBigger891
14 hours ago
31[M4F]NY/Online-Nerdy Confident Tattooed Bodybuilder Type
M4F M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by themfeelsyo
14 hours ago
32 [M4F] #NewYork
M4F M4F
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by AuthorJWT
15 hours ago
45 [M4F] #Austin, Texas - I'll just leave this right here.
M4F M4F
in Austin, TX
to r/R4R40Plus by No_Wheel_3726
15 hours ago
48 [M4F] #Cardiff, Wales, UK - Looking to make a connection with an honest woman.
M4F M4F
in Cardiff
to r/R4R40Plus by throwawayfun451
16 hours ago
45 [M4F] #NY #Online chastity beta sub for aspiring or experienced Domme
M4F
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by _TormentedTantalus_
16 hours ago
45[M4F] #Online #USA – Larger guy looking to connect while working on life.
M4F M4F
in online
to r/R4R40Plus by duckster1974
16 hours ago
50 [M4F] - #GA - A new approach
M4F M4F
in Georgia, US