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r/R4R40Plus

37,795 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Dec 29, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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M4F F4R F4M M4R Austin, TX M4M R4R 48M Illinois UK SoCal location KY South Carolina T4M TM4M F4F TF4M NB4R TF4R Midwest USA TF4F CA Victoria, BC T4R NYC Kasilof, Alaska Oakhurst, California middle Ga Germany Oregon view more
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to r/R4R40Plus by darwitchm
2 years ago
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
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to r/R4R40Plus by pierre_x10
29 minutes ago
39 [M4F] Virginia/Online - Looking for nice chats, sushi dates, and anything in between
M4F
in Virginia
to r/R4R40Plus by swedish_meat_balls_0
1 hour ago
36 [M4F] – #online #anywhere. In Search of Conversations That Actually Go Somewhere
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in online
to r/R4R40Plus by _Silver-Fox_
1 hour ago
50 M4F UK | I have a deeply hidden and inarticulate desire for something beyond the daily life
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by ThisIsIt8181
3 hours ago
43 [M4F] #London #Kent #Online – Chat, Vibe & Chemistry
M4F
in London, UK
to r/R4R40Plus by Eli_83
3 hours ago
41 [M4F] The Netherlands/ EU/ online
M4F
in Netherlands
to r/R4R40Plus by Primary_Ad_5657
4 hours ago
55 [M4F] # England # online
M4F M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by superraredonut
4 hours ago
44 [m4f] East Coast/online. At work and I don't wanna be an adult tonight
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Corvette-MidLife
5 hours ago
59 [M4F] #NewJersey Morris area: friend and activity partner
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/R4R40Plus by SevenPoint80
7 hours ago
44 [M4R] California - Let's chat
M4R
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by Water-dragon99
9 hours ago
40 [M4F] #UK #Lancashire Looking for something meaningful and lasting
M4F
in United Kingdom
to r/R4R40Plus by HalloweenHandjobz
9 hours ago
36 [M4F] Anywhere- Silent Night, Deadly Night.
M4F M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Boro_Redditor
10 hours ago
53 [M4F] #Nashville
M4F M4F
in Nashville, TN
to r/R4R40Plus by Josephthebear
11 hours ago
39[m4f] NJ/NYC - Looking for chill conversation with a nice stranger
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/R4R40Plus by Hot-Map6105
12 hours ago
[M4F] Sioux Falls, SD./Online Seeking New Adventures and Cozy Evenings
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by SilentFood215
12 hours ago
47 [M4F] #St. Louis, MO -- Where is my shy, introverted BBW?
M4F
in St Louis, MO
to r/R4R40Plus by Fight-Milk-Steak
12 hours ago
40 [M4F] Online/EST - Pretend
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by RipleyVanDalen
13 hours ago
44 [M4F] #Online #Oregon – Tall, Slim White Guy Who Loves to Learn Looking for Nerdy, Chill Woman
M4F
in Oregon
to r/R4R40Plus by BahHumbug666
13 hours ago
40 [M4R] - Looking for intelligent, anti-social weirdos
M4R M4R
to r/R4R40Plus by Extreme_Pride
13 hours ago
33 [M4F] - Online/Anywhere - Is it a crime to not know what you want?
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by CaliCuddles
15 hours ago
40 [M4F] California Let me be your knight in cuddling armor going into 2025
M4F
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by smilejokers
16 hours ago
47 [M4F] - England - looking to chat and start to build foundations
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Illuzionz518
16 hours ago
33[m4f] NY I'm bored you're bored wanna talk? Happy holidays
M4F M4F
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by needtopetcats
16 hours ago
43 [M4F] Switzerland or online. 2025 here we come!
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in Switzerland
to r/R4R40Plus by Beep_Boop84
16 hours ago
40 [M4F] #California, Humans are like onions- You have to peel them to find the stuff inside!
M4F
in California