Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
r/R4R40Plus
36,190 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

R4R40Plus Moderators

Last updated: 10/13/2024
• darwitchm added 6 years ago
• VolatileDesires added 3 years ago (also mods r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution)

R4R40Plus Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

• Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

• Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

• Polite

Follow reddiquette!

• Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

• Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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2 years ago
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
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32 [M4F] Germany/Anywhere - Longterm (Voice)Chat - Erotica Writer - Patient get-to-know that gradually devolves into a dirty one
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33[m4f] NY I'm bored you're bored wanna talk?
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36 [M4F] Ireland / Europe / Anywhere. Let's just skip to the part where we talk about the things that make us happy, and forget about the real world for a minute. ☔️🍁☕️
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42 [M4M] Cleveland/Online Friendly Chats with Other Neurodivergent Dudes
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5 hours ago
40 [M4F] #Netherlands seeking significant other
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45 [M4F] #Rhode Island #RI #Massachusetts #MA - married 4 married
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in Massachusetts
to r/R4R40Plus by BiNYCDaddy
6 hours ago
64 [M4F] #NYC older daddy seeks nerdy younger woman
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in New York City
to r/R4R40Plus by savory_thing
6 hours ago
57 [M4F] New England: Looking for my new best friend
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in New England
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6 hours ago
44 [M4F] #Indiana#EST WFH? Let's keep each other company!
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to r/R4R40Plus by Head-Phrase-3432
7 hours ago
41 [M4F] #illinois- tall, romantic, fun, kinky, blue eyed single dad looking for a sweet, clingy, talkative long term connection/soulmate
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to r/R4R40Plus by Gloomy_LimaBean
7 hours ago
36 [M4F] DMV Area - Does anyone take dating seriously?
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to r/R4R40Plus by conversationAndBoobs
7 hours ago
47 [M4F] - #Online - Conversation and boobs
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to r/R4R40Plus by Lifeat70
7 hours ago
70 [M4F] #California. Over 40? It Is Not All Over But You Have To Act! Reach Out.
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in California
to r/R4R40Plus by Kain316
8 hours ago
44 [M4F] #Orlando, Florida [NYC native] let's distract each from work till one of us ghosts the other
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in NYC native
to r/R4R40Plus by Optimal-Fan9534
8 hours ago
32[M4F]Lets chat our Monday away
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to r/R4R40Plus by drinkingwaterisgreat
8 hours ago
51 (M4F) San Antonio, Texas Seek Gen X or...
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in San Antonio, TX
to r/R4R40Plus by CantaloupeFlaky989
9 hours ago
40 [M4F] #england let's get crazy together
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in United Kingdom
to r/R4R40Plus by QuietGuy617
9 hours ago
63 [M4F] #Boston, Massachusetts #MetroWest #NH - Dominant man seeks woman to explore with - IRL only - Beginners welcome!
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10 hours ago
41[M4]-Europe- Hello
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11 hours ago
37 [M4F] South England #UK - British Born Chinese Seeking Meaningful Connection
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13 hours ago
33 [M4F] #Los Angeles #Anywhere - Looking For A Chat
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15 hours ago
42 [M4F] #PNW #Online I don't want the weekend to be over
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56 [M4F] #California, USA Someone Real
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18 hours ago
41 [M4F] My ex girlfriend told me I’m terrible in bed. I told her it’s unfair to make a judgement in less than a minute.
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