Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
r/R4R40Plus
36,190 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

R4R40Plus Moderators

Last updated: 10/14/2024
• darwitchm added 6 years ago
• VolatileDesires added 3 years ago (also mods r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution)

R4R40Plus Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

• Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

• Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

• Polite

Follow reddiquette!

• Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

• Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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2 years ago
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
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40 [M4F] Canada - Chat?
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1 hour ago
48 [M4R] #HNL - Looking for friends in paradise.
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44 [M4F] #Orlando, Florida [NYC native] looking for a vibe
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41 [M4F] #illinois- sweet, kinky, romantic, devoted dad looking for sweet, clingy, loving, kinky, cuddly long term relationship
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to r/R4R40Plus by mrniceguy78
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46 [M4F] #Madison, WI - Yes, that's a wheelchair I'm wearing...
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in Madison, WI
to r/R4R40Plus by adequatebanana400
5 hours ago
40[M4F] have a few drinks with me
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to r/R4R40Plus by noNoParts
6 hours ago
50 [m4f] Pacific Northwest on the coast, tall bearded dude
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6 hours ago
36 [M4F] Midwest/US - Need a distraction??
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7 hours ago
43 [M4F] #Seattle - Lunch Time Debauchery!!!
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in Seattle, WA
to r/R4R40Plus by FewKoala9
8 hours ago
38[m4f] #Online - It's raining AGAIN! 🙄 Let see if I can find a genuine connection at least.
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8 hours ago
40 [M4R] [Online] - Looking for intelligent, anti-social weirdos
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8 hours ago
73 [M4F] #Long Island/Manhattan - You want a young looking tall older white male, older than your Dad (or even your Grandfather)  who wants to make your orgasms INTENSE again and much more.  BTW if you need an hour or two of oral then tell me an I will eat you out for as long as you want. Honestly
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to r/R4R40Plus by TopResort3346
8 hours ago
42 [m4f] uk guy soon to be divorced looking to find kind caring friends to tell me its going to be ok.
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to r/R4R40Plus by ADKLark
9 hours ago
40 [M4F] US - Beyond Swiping: The Search for Meaningful Conversation and Connection
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9 hours ago
47 [M4F] MN - Fall is here, where are my flannels?
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in Minnesota
to r/R4R40Plus by MartyMcMcFly
9 hours ago
46[M4F] I'm in Australia and you're wherever you need to be! What is the last song you put on repeat?
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in Australia
to r/R4R40Plus by CookieReviewer
10 hours ago
32 [M4F] Germany/Anywhere - Longterm (Voice)Chat - Erotica Writer - Patient get-to-know that gradually devolves into a dirty one
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in Germany
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11 hours ago
33[m4f] NY I'm bored you're bored wanna talk?
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in New York
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36 [M4F] Ireland / Europe / Anywhere. Let's just skip to the part where we talk about the things that make us happy, and forget about the real world for a minute. ☔️🍁☕️
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14 hours ago
42 [M4M] Cleveland/Online Friendly Chats with Other Neurodivergent Dudes
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15 hours ago
40 [M4F] #Netherlands seeking significant other
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16 hours ago
45 [M4F] #Rhode Island #RI #Massachusetts #MA - married 4 married
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16 hours ago
64 [M4F] #NYC older daddy seeks nerdy younger woman
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