Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
r/R4R40Plus
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A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

R4R40Plus Moderators

Last updated: 10/01/2024
• darwitchm added 6 years ago
• VolatileDesires added 3 years ago (also mods r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution)

R4R40Plus Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

• Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

• Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

• Polite

Follow reddiquette!

• Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

• Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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41 [m4f] - posted previously and basically received nothing but ghosting - I'm still an exhausted dad
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36 [M4F] Ireland / Europe / Anywhere. Let's just skip to the part where we talk about the things that make us happy, and forget about the real world for a minute. ☔️🍁☕️
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73 [M4F] #Long Island/Manhattan - Regardless of your age, marital status etc., there are things in the bedroom that you just can’t do with your current partner or dates that you can only try or feel comfortable doing with an in shape older very experienced white male.
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41 [M4F] #midwest- tall, sweet, romantic, kinky, dominant, insatiable, single dad looking for my clingy, loving, soulmate
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40 [M4F] - Athletic, Nerdy Guy Looking for Conmections
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52 [M4F] #NYC — Stuck in a Narcissistic Marriage, Searching for Connection
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44 [M4F] #Indian/anywhere. I need friends! :(
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43 [M4F] Online; Big Bad Wolf for Little Piggy
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32 [M4F] Spain/Switzerland/Europe. Pediatric surgeon looking for a kind and curious lady. Open to any country.
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44 [M4F] #Orlando, Florida [orig. from NYC] chat today, ghost tomorrow
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43 [M4F] #Belgium / EU - Looking to chat about just about anything, the more silly the better
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43 [M4F] #London – Looking for Naughty Fun? Let’s Flirt, Play, and See Where It Leads...
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38 [M4F] #NNJ - Tall, handsome great kisser dying to go down on a woman with long labia
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