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r/R4R40Plus

36,539 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 4, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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M4F F4R F4M M4R Austin, TX M4M R4R 48M Illinois UK SoCal location KY South Carolina T4M TM4M F4F TF4M NB4R TF4R Midwest USA TF4F CA Victoria, BC T4R NYC Kasilof, Alaska Oakhurst, California middle Ga Germany Oregon view more
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to r/R4R40Plus by darwitchm
2 years ago
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by cosmicwaveriderss
4 hours ago
35 [M4F] - East Coast/Online - Case of the Monday Blues?
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Gloomy_LimaBean
7 hours ago
36 [M4F] PA/MD/VA - Does anyone take dating seriously?
M4F M4F
in Pennsylvania
to r/R4R40Plus by wittychat
4 hours ago
41 [m4f] USA - We Survived Monday. Let’s Talk About How
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Dallas_Sex_Expert
7 hours ago
49 [M4F] N Dallas, Deep Affection, Intimacy, Sensuality, Ultimate Cuddle Buddy, Hung/Thick 6” Around, Open to Age, Body Type, exHip-Hop Dance Teacher, Educated (3 degrees) Kind, Fun, Not a Bed Hopper, Will Take your Mind into the Zone
M4F M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Less-Cartoonist1951
8 hours ago
42[M4F] #Online/anywhere- Educated, good sense of humor, and genuine. Looking for a real and honest connection!
M4F M4F
in online
to r/R4R40Plus by R_U_MyFutureExWife
8 hours ago
43[M4F] GA - no witty title on this one.
M4F M4F
in Georgia, US
to r/R4R40Plus by SkechersDude
9 hours ago
44 [M4F] #US - Layover Lunch
M4F
in US
to r/R4R40Plus by WeirdlyGentle
9 hours ago
45 [M4F] #Ireland #Online - Let's look for treasure
M4F M4F
in Ireland
to r/R4R40Plus by throwawayfun451
10 hours ago
45 [M4F] #NY #Online chastity beta sub for aspiring or experienced Domme
M4F
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by Vespeneass
10 hours ago
40 [M4F] Online/Canada/ON – You've Got My Attention
M4F M4F
in Canada
to r/R4R40Plus by ConsciousVast5725
10 hours ago
68 [M4F] #LongIsland/Queens/Manhattan - You're inexperienced and are sick of guys in your age bracket using you but not giving the pleasure you crave or even teach you new things.
M4F M4F
in LongIsland/Queens/Manhattan
to r/R4R40Plus by Quite_Affable
10 hours ago
53 [M4F] #Nashville
M4F M4F
in Nashville, TN
to r/R4R40Plus by themfeelsyo
11 hours ago
32 [M4F] #NewYork
M4F
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by Tiates
11 hours ago
41 [M4F] US - Seeking Fellow Overthinker for Deep Dives, Bad Jokes, and Occasional Spontaneity
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by gothammoon
11 hours ago
41 [M4R] #Planet Earth - Never eating Taco Bell again
M4R
in planet
to r/R4R40Plus by Dekedawgs2
12 hours ago
55 [M4F] Seeking Fun And Intelligent - Northwest Indiana
M4F M4F
in Indiana
to r/R4R40Plus by Illuzionz518
12 hours ago
33[m4f] NY I'm bored you're bored wanna talk?
M4F M4F
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by KnightlyDefender
13 hours ago
47 [M4F] #NYC - Exploring Tantra: Seeking a Partner for a Deeper, More Romantic Journey
M4F
in New York City
to r/R4R40Plus by IntelligentBet5247
14 hours ago
39 [M4F] Tucson AZ
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by MilkChocolate4U
15 hours ago
51 [M4F] #Connecticut, #Online - Seeking a Woman Who Appreciates the Journey
M4F M4F
in Connecticut
to r/R4R40Plus by Redditaccount9990
16 hours ago
40 [M4F] - #Lethbridge #Alberta #Canada Why?
M4F
in Lethbridge, Canada
to r/R4R40Plus by Express_Drama_4579
16 hours ago
41 [M4F] #NYC Sensual Massage Offer
M4F
in New York City
to r/R4R40Plus by jasonveridas
16 hours ago
32[M4F] - #NYC/#Online - Why shouldn’t a good time, last a long time?
M4F M4F
in New York City
to r/R4R40Plus by Lopsided_Fly4738
17 hours ago
65 [M4F] #Salem, Oregon - I just want to feel again
M4F M4F
in Salem, OR