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r/R4R40Plus

37,588 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Dec 18, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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M4F F4R F4M M4R Austin, TX M4M R4R 48M Illinois UK SoCal location KY South Carolina T4M TM4M F4F TF4M NB4R TF4R Midwest USA TF4F CA Victoria, BC T4R NYC Kasilof, Alaska Oakhurst, California middle Ga Germany Oregon view more
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to r/R4R40Plus by darwitchm
2 years ago
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
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to r/R4R40Plus by Right-Tech-66
40 minutes ago
40 [M4F] Getting Back and Seeking Friends
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by superraredonut
1 hour ago
44 [m4f] Anywhere/Online. Boring night at home. Let’s chat till we’re tired.
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by throwaway-acct-2421
2 hours ago
40 [M4F] #Lowell, MA Looking for Dinner and Dance Partner Tomorrow
M4F
in Lowell, MA
to r/R4R40Plus by Buddy_Glass_PA
3 hours ago
50 [M4F] #Philly -- Where is my babygirl?
M4F M4F
in Philadelphia, PA
to r/R4R40Plus by walkthelonelyroad77
3 hours ago
47m [m4f] thats the night the lights went out in #Geoegia
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in Geoegia
to r/R4R40Plus by ChartOne9040
3 hours ago
48 [M4F] Union County / New Jersey - Staying together for the kids and looking for someone to pass the time with
M4F
in Union, NJ
to r/R4R40Plus by blad3_runr
5 hours ago
39 [M4F] NYC. Taking the rest of the year off. Join me...
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by ImpossibleEgg837
5 hours ago
45 [M4F] #canada Seeking thoughtful conversations with a smart, witty woman
M4F
in King, Canada
to r/R4R40Plus by _TormentedTantalus_
6 hours ago
45[M4F] #Online #USA #midwest – Looking to connect with someone long term.
M4F M4F
in online
to r/R4R40Plus by Dadflexing
6 hours ago
43 [M4F] Fun intro games
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to r/R4R40Plus by ckdublinsdad
7 hours ago
48[M4F] Divorced But Not Dead
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by expressescape832
8 hours ago
40 [M4F] #Houston - Any older women want to chat? We can chat about whatever, sore knees, the weather, maybe more ;) Houston area only.
M4F
in Houston, TX
to r/R4R40Plus by sweetsexydad6983
8 hours ago
41 [M4F] #midwest- tall, romantic, dominant, possessive, blue eyed single dad looking for a sweet, clingy, submissive, cuddly, genuine long term connection/relationship/fwb
M4F M4F
in Midwest
to r/R4R40Plus by vsdomm
9 hours ago
53 [M4F] #NYC straight, sane dom male looking for a female for regular play or more. Let's talk.
M4F
in New York City
to r/R4R40Plus by Jonah-Ryans-Burner
9 hours ago
37 [M4F] #US #Online - Naughty + Nice = The Dream Find
M4F M4F
in US
to r/R4R40Plus by Adventurous-Bet9747
9 hours ago
36 [M4F] Oxford, England - You’ve got a friend in me.
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to r/R4R40Plus by DoctorIsN
12 hours ago
44 [M4F] #Online; Foot Warming Conversations
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in online
to r/R4R40Plus by RipleyVanDalen
12 hours ago
44 [M4F] #Online #Oregon – Tall, Slim White Guy with Insatiable Curiosity Looking for Nerdy, Chill Woman
M4F
in Oregon
to r/R4R40Plus by pghhubby
13 hours ago
47 [M4F] - #Online - Looking for more experience
M4F M4F
in online
to r/R4R40Plus by Knowfingeyedear
13 hours ago
42 [M4F] #Australia / Anywhere - Looking for someone to chat with, maybe more.
M4F M4F
in Australia
to r/R4R40Plus by PartEmbarrassed2021
13 hours ago
46 [M4F] #San Francisco. Seeking an adventure and more.
M4F M4F
in San
to r/R4R40Plus by funtimes19800
14 hours ago
43 [m4f] #ma
M4F M4F
in Massachusetts
to r/R4R40Plus by southernerguy40
15 hours ago
40 [M4F] #Texas: Seeking a Spark That Sets Us Both on Fire—Are You In? (Please read)
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in Texas
to r/R4R40Plus by deathofsuperman666
15 hours ago
38 [M4F] USA - "a softer landing might just ease the pain, being a coward is such a drag"
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