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r/R4R40Plus

37,606 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Dec 20, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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to r/R4R40Plus by darwitchm
2 years ago
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by No_Judgment_9028
1 hour ago
43 [M4R] #England UK #Anywhere- looking for a meaningful, affectionate and romantic relationship with any gender.
M4R M4R
in United Kingdom
to r/R4R40Plus by ShutTheFunkUp_Donny
1 hour ago
42 [M4F] London, UK - Christmas playpal for connections & playful interactions
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by No-Razzmatazz-3936
2 hours ago
31[M4F] let's make our night better with a call!!!!
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to r/R4R40Plus by Least-Corgi-4808
3 hours ago
38f [m4f] Talk to donuts & eat them when they get outta line
M4F F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Main-Space9182
5 hours ago
43 [M4F] #USA #Online #Earth
M4F M4F
in USA
to r/R4R40Plus by VikingThunders
6 hours ago
35 [M4F] - Online/East Coast - Happy Friday! Favorite thing about the Holidays?
M4F M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Bylak
7 hours ago
39 [M4R] #Ottawa #Canada - lets help each other brighten the holidays!
M4R M4R
in Ottawa, Canada
to r/R4R40Plus by gamerguy559
7 hours ago
40 [M4F] California – It’s dangerous to go alone! Take this [You acquired Christmas miracle compatibility connection]
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Chance-Minimum8078
7 hours ago
36 [M4F] Vermont/Anywhere - A Solstice Shout Into the Void
M4F M4F
in Vermont
to r/R4R40Plus by superraredonut
7 hours ago
44 [m4f] Anywhere/Online. Boring, cold and snowy night at home. Let's chat
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by WashedUpAndDone
8 hours ago
44 [M4F] TN - Tall and Single: I Just Want Someone To Be Boring With
M4F
in Tennessee
to r/R4R40Plus by LocksmithLegal9964
8 hours ago
68 [M4F] #NYC/LI - VERY VERY Flat Chested submissive woman sought by Daddy
M4F M4F
in New York City
to r/R4R40Plus by Jaded_Investment_919
8 hours ago
43 [M4F] (Louisville, KY area) - Looking for a connection
M4F
in Louisville, KY
to r/R4R40Plus by Quite_Affable
9 hours ago
53 [M4F] #Nashville
M4F M4F
in Nashville, TN
to r/R4R40Plus by FuzzyDatabase6194
9 hours ago
47[m4f] Ontario Canada
M4F
in Canada
to r/R4R40Plus by ImpossibleEgg837
9 hours ago
45 [M4F] #online Seeking thoughtful conversations with a smart, witty woman
M4F M4F
in online
to r/R4R40Plus by mynamegeoff22
10 hours ago
43 [M4F] #Michigan Alright Ladies, Yoga Pants/Leggings, Coffee, Tacos, Butt Rubs, Or Target, One Has To Go. What Are You Giving Up? And "F" This Cold Weather...I Miss Sunshine And Summer
M4F
in Michigan
to r/R4R40Plus by Blaq_sheep
10 hours ago
43 [M4F] #Utah #Online Looking for pre-holiday chats, friendship, randomness
M4F
in Utah
to r/R4R40Plus by Nxtchncalirrgularity
10 hours ago
42 [M4F] Ohio/ Online. 6’2”. Smart, funny, confident and genuine! I am ready for my Christmas break starting now!
M4F M4F
in Ohio, OH
to r/R4R40Plus by watch_more_tv40
10 hours ago
41[M4F]- Europe- Hello
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by airplanesatan
10 hours ago
39 [M4F] USA ANYWHERE - "towards antisocial dull dull so dull"
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Interesting_Donut9
11 hours ago
31[M4F] #UK/Online - Looking for a long term platonic friend
M4F M4F
in United Kingdom
to r/R4R40Plus by Secret_Wave6880
11 hours ago
41M4F keep me company at the gym
M4F M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by JJayBANEWarrior
13 hours ago
43 [M4F] Recently moved from Boston to Utah. Love getting to know people and have some laughs. It’s my birthday soon!
M4F
in Utah