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r/R4R40Plus

36,929 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 21, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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M4F F4R F4M M4R Austin, TX M4M R4R 48M Illinois UK SoCal location KY South Carolina T4M TM4M F4F TF4M NB4R TF4R Midwest USA TF4F CA Victoria, BC T4R NYC Kasilof, Alaska Oakhurst, California middle Ga Germany Oregon view more
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to r/R4R40Plus by darwitchm
2 years ago
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
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to r/R4R40Plus by Funny_Cheesecake_870
52 minutes ago
32 [M4F] Spain/Switzerland/Europe. Pediatric surgeon looking for a kind and curious lady. Open to any country.
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in Spain
to r/R4R40Plus by steven1541
52 minutes ago
47 [M4F] #westchester #NY
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in Westchester, NY
to r/R4R40Plus by bobsmithreddit4645
1 hour ago
41 [M4A] - Anyone wan't to remotely control my toy while I try to sleep?
M4A
to r/R4R40Plus by HappWrongdier1597
1 hour ago
43 [M4F] USA musician and writer looking for discord friends
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to r/R4R40Plus by Kain316
1 hour ago
45 [M4F] #Orlando, Florida [NYC native] anyone here not a spammer, catfisher or bot?
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in NYC native
to r/R4R40Plus by SmutAuthorsEscapisms
2 hours ago
32 [M4F] Germany/Online - (Voice) Chat - Erotica Writer looking for Longterm Connection
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in Germany
to r/R4R40Plus by impishoradmirable84
2 hours ago
36 [M4F] help me pass the time?
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to r/R4R40Plus by JJayBANEWarrior
4 hours ago
43 [M4F] Recently moved from Boston to Utah. Quite the culture shock. Looking to meet new people and chat. Also can’t sleep!
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in Utah
to r/R4R40Plus by ThisIsIt8181
7 hours ago
43 [M4F] #London – Chat and Get Naughty
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in London, UK
to r/R4R40Plus by No-Razzmatazz-3936
8 hours ago
31[M4F] let's make our night better with a call!!!!
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to r/R4R40Plus by dirtyadventures40
9 hours ago
40 [m4f] #texas- any fellow late night lurker here for fun and adventurous conversations about real life experiences wherever they take us tonight
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in Texas
to r/R4R40Plus by DeadliftsandDnD_
10 hours ago
31[M4F]NY/Online-Nerdy Tattooed Bodybuilder Type seeking adventuring partner
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to r/R4R40Plus by Quite_Affable
10 hours ago
53 [M4F] #Nashville
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in Nashville, TN
to r/R4R40Plus by superraredonut
10 hours ago
44 [m4f] East Coast/Online. Cold rainy night at home. Let's talk
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by Complex_Translator53
13 hours ago
41 [M4F] What did the janitor say when he jumped out of the closet?
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to r/R4R40Plus by squarerootof47
13 hours ago
42 [M4F] Louisiana / Online - Let me keep you warm this winter
M4F M4F
in Louisiana
to r/R4R40Plus by CourtObjective9999
14 hours ago
64 [M4F] #NY metro area- (Long Island/NYC) You want a casual relationship with a significantly older white male before settling down. Or maybe you’re dating, married or attaced but still want to try older even if it’s very short term. You can be of any skin shade or body type.
M4F M4F
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by ConsciousVast5725
14 hours ago
68 [M4F] #ILas Vegas - In shape white Daddy seeks to defile one skanky/slutty woman when I am in Vegas 12/6 & 12/7. Even two woman if you're both sharing a hotel room.
M4F M4F
in ILas
to r/R4R40Plus by superraredonut
15 hours ago
44 [m4f] East Coast/Online. Cold rainy night at home. Let's talk
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by OldSchoolScoundrel5
15 hours ago
47 [M4F] #Midwest America -- I just don't do well without you.
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in Midwest
to r/R4R40Plus by ahoonigan4242
15 hours ago
42 [M4F] #Seattle - Seeking lunch/after work - Kinky - Discreet - Rendezvous!!!
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in Seattle, WA
to r/R4R40Plus by stoic50
15 hours ago
62 [M4F] #Portland,OR. searching for an intimate friend
M4F
in Portland, OR
to r/R4R40Plus by BahHumbug666
15 hours ago
40 [M4R] - Looking for intelligent, anti-social weirdos
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to r/R4R40Plus by freddiemercurial
18 hours ago
46 [M4F] UK/Anywhere - I want to be with someone who loves to hug, cuddle and snuggle as much as I do
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