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r/R4R40Plus

36,898 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 21, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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M4F F4R F4M M4R Austin, TX M4M R4R 48M Illinois UK SoCal location KY South Carolina T4M TM4M F4F TF4M NB4R TF4R Midwest USA TF4F CA Victoria, BC T4R NYC Kasilof, Alaska Oakhurst, California middle Ga Germany Oregon view more
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to r/R4R40Plus by darwitchm
2 years ago
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
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to r/R4R40Plus by Delicious-Coyote3879
8 minutes ago
50s [M4F] Why do we come here? And, why do we hang around?
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to r/R4R40Plus by Ok-Possibility-2266
44 minutes ago
39 [M4F] Sweden/Anywhere Looking for a sweet lady
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in Sweden
to r/R4R40Plus by SilentFood215
1 hour ago
47 [M4F] #Midwest America -- If you meet the following criteria
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in Midwest
to r/R4R40Plus by Top_Contribution6535
1 hour ago
50 [M4F] Florida man in search of….
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in Florida
to r/R4R40Plus by TM888
1 hour ago
39 [M4F] US-EST/Anywhere/Online - Seeking a Monogamous Soulmate
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to r/R4R40Plus by heyredblue9
1 hour ago
34 [M4F] Turkey/Europe -Looking for a partner who loves to travel.
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in Turkey
to r/R4R40Plus by super_trex41
1 hour ago
41 [M4F] #Online I live a pretty interesting life
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in online
to r/R4R40Plus by Ok-League4647
2 hours ago
41 [M4F] #Anywhere in the world. Let's get straight to the point...
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in Anywhere
to r/R4R40Plus by CourtObjective9999
2 hours ago
64 [M4F] #Queens/LI/Manhattan - Daddy wants to fully inspect and then toally dominate (within her few limits) a slutty woman with smaller breasts at a motel or I can come to you.
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in Queens/LI/Manhattan
to r/R4R40Plus by Negative-Plankton-23
2 hours ago
50 [M4R] Netherlands / Europe - Online and real-life friends or romance
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in Netherlands
to r/R4R40Plus by Lopsided_Fly4738
3 hours ago
65 [M4F] #Salem, Oregon - I just want to feel again
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in Salem, OR
to r/R4R40Plus by hyflyinthesky
6 hours ago
53 [M4F] #Texas #anywhere #online I'm searching for a female daily chat partner and best friend.
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in Texas
to r/R4R40Plus by super_trex41
6 hours ago
41 [M4F] #Philly Looking to chat for now
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in Philadelphia, PA
to r/R4R40Plus by TopResort3346
7 hours ago
42[m4f] #online/uk cold and lonely divorced dad looking for a chats and cuddle buddy....
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in United Kingdom
to r/R4R40Plus by Corvette-MidLife
9 hours ago
59 [M4F] New Jersey Morris County: e-biking partner
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in Morris, NJ
to r/R4R40Plus by ThisIsIt8181
10 hours ago
43 [M4F] #London – Chat, Chemistry and Get Naughty
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in London, UK
to r/R4R40Plus by Edinburghmadness
10 hours ago
41 [M4F] Scotland / anywhere - Scottish guy looking for cool new people to talk to while working from home. Anyone around?
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to r/R4R40Plus by No-Razzmatazz-3936
11 hours ago
31[M4F] let's make our night better with a call!!!!
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to r/R4R40Plus by Main-Space9182
12 hours ago
43 [M4F] USA/Online - Read before Messaging
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to r/R4R40Plus by SadistPaddington
13 hours ago
40[M4F]#KansasCity - Must be the holidays
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in Kansas
to r/R4R40Plus by NormalAndSane
14 hours ago
42 [M4F] #SoCal - Hump day chat?
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in Southern California
to r/R4R40Plus by diamondindirt40
14 hours ago
38 [m4f] #nyc- any fellow late night owl here for conversations wherever they take us
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in New York City
to r/R4R40Plus by dirtyadventures40
15 hours ago
40 [m4f] #Houston - looking for a fun and adventurous lurker here for an easy going connect
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in Houston, TX
to r/R4R40Plus by Just_Average2655
15 hours ago
44 [M4F] Ohio/Midwest USA. Looking to chat with new friends.
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in Ohio, OH