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r/R4R40Plus

36,943 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 23, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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to r/R4R40Plus by darwitchm
2 years ago
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
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to r/R4R40Plus by oh-you-know7
3 minutes ago
41 [m4f] South Carolina/Online - Weekend is Here, Time to Chat
M4F M4F
in South Carolina
to r/R4R40Plus by watch_more_tv40
1 hour ago
41[M4F]- Hello
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by hyflyinthesky
2 hours ago
53 [M4F] #Texas #anywhere #online I'm searching for a female daily chat partner and best friend.
M4F
in Texas
to r/R4R40Plus by SmutAuthorsEscapisms
2 hours ago
32 [M4F] Germany/Online - (Voice) Chat - Erotica Author looking for Longterm Connection
M4F M4F
in Germany
to r/R4R40Plus by swedishnurse1
4 hours ago
39 [M4F] Sweden/Anywhere/Online Looking for a sweet lady
M4F
in Sweden
to r/R4R40Plus by ThisIsIt8181
6 hours ago
43 [M4F] #London – Weekend Flirt & Fun
M4F
in London, UK
to r/R4R40Plus by diamondindirt40
7 hours ago
38 [m4f] #houston- any fellow late night lurker here for fun and adventurous conversations about real life experiences wherever they take us tonight
M4F
in Houston, TX
to r/R4R40Plus by SirsRule983
9 hours ago
41 [M4F] #Nashville, TN - Concert Junkie Seeking Plus 1
M4F M4F
in Nashville, TN
to r/R4R40Plus by crazy-driver911
10 hours ago
41 [M4F] Bangalore India- Certified DILFâ„¢
M4F M4F
in Bangalore, India
to r/R4R40Plus by SmutAuthorsEscapisms
12 hours ago
32 [M4F] Germany/Online - (Voice) Chat - Erotica Author looking for Longterm Connection
M4F M4F
in Germany
to r/R4R40Plus by ConsciousVast5725
12 hours ago
68 [M4F] #ILas Vegas - In shape white Daddy seeks to defile one skanky/slutty woman when I am in Vegas 12/6 & 12/7. Even two woman if you're both sharing a hotel room.
M4F M4F
in ILas
to r/R4R40Plus by CourtObjective9999
13 hours ago
64 [M4F] #NY metro area- (Long Island/NYC) You want a casual relationship with a significantly older white male before settling down. Or maybe you’re dating, married or attaced but still want to try older even if it’s very short term.
M4F M4F
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by Conscious-Flamingo72
13 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 40 [M4F] Maryland/East Coast/ Anywhere Bearded gamer doesn’t want be alone anymore want my forever fireteam member image
40 [M4F] Maryland/East Coast/ Anywhere Bearded gamer doesn’t want be alone anymore want my forever fireteam member
M4F M4F
in Maryland
to r/R4R40Plus by mynamegeoff22
13 hours ago
43 [M4F] #Michigan Guy Here, With A Question. Target, Starbucks, Leggings, Tacos, Stanley Cups, Or Halloween, You Gotta Get Rid Of One, Which 5 Are Staying And Who Is Out?
M4F
in Michigan
to r/R4R40Plus by Quite_Affable
14 hours ago
53 [M4F] #Nashville
M4F M4F
in Nashville, TN
to r/R4R40Plus by FewKoala9
14 hours ago
38[m4f] #US #Online - Rekindling Authentic Connection in a Digital Age
M4F
in US
to r/R4R40Plus by oilfieldop
15 hours ago
39 [M4F] #North Dakota. #Online. If I need some catchy headline to attract your attention… well I’m sorry for your loss. The headline means nothing, it’s what’s in the post that actually matters. Check it out… you might actually be surprised.
M4F
in North Dakota
to r/R4R40Plus by SmutAuthorsEscapisms
16 hours ago
32 [M4F] Germany/Online - (Voice) Chat - Erotica Writer looking for Longterm Connection
M4F M4F
in Germany
to r/R4R40Plus by OldSchoolScoundrel5
16 hours ago
47 [M4F] #Midwest America -- If you meet the following criteria
M4F
in Midwest
to r/R4R40Plus by KingOfDallas
16 hours ago
44 [M4F] #DFW, Texas #Frisco #FtWorth Looking for a soulmate & BFF!
M4F M4F
in Frisco, TX
to r/R4R40Plus by Illuzionz518
16 hours ago
33[m4f] NY I'm bored you're bored wanna talk?
M4F M4F
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by themfeelsyo
17 hours ago
32 [M4F] #NewYork
M4F
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by Dekedawgs2
18 hours ago
55 [M4F] Seeking Chat Pal In Northwest Indiana
M4F
in Indiana
to r/R4R40Plus by oh-you-know7
18 hours ago
41 [m4f] South Carolina/Online - Weekend is Here, Time to Chat
M4F M4F
in South Carolina