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r/R4R40Plus

36,730 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 12, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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M4F F4R F4M M4R Austin, TX M4M R4R 48M Illinois UK SoCal location KY South Carolina T4M TM4M F4F TF4M NB4R TF4R Midwest USA TF4F CA Victoria, BC T4R NYC Kasilof, Alaska Oakhurst, California middle Ga Germany Oregon view more
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to r/R4R40Plus by darwitchm
2 years ago
Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by ConsciousVast5725
6 hours ago
68 [M4F] #NYC/Long Island - Creative take charge in shape tall white Daddy seeks to meet two woman or a couple. Particularly if meeting a much older white male is one of your. bucket list items.
M4F M4F
in New York City
to r/R4R40Plus by Midnightmoon080
6 hours ago
44[m4f]#Rhode Island looking for a curvy woman
M4F M4F
in Rhode Island
to r/R4R40Plus by Buddy_Glass_PA
6 hours ago
50 [M4F] #Philly -- What a terrible time to be an American. We need each other more than ever...
M4F M4F
in Philadelphia, PA
to r/R4R40Plus by logitec4x2
7 hours ago
40[M4R] SoCal - Looking to make new friends!
M4R
to r/R4R40Plus by Quite_Affable
7 hours ago
53 [M4F] #Nashville
M4F M4F
in Nashville, TN
to r/R4R40Plus by Junky3Messages3
8 hours ago
30 [M4R] #California #Online - Tall, well endowed and thoughtful! Nerdy cute white guy looking for friendship or love
M4R M4R
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by TopResort3346
8 hours ago
42[m4f] #uk divorced guy finally in his new place but its quiet and lonely..
M4F
in United Kingdom
to r/R4R40Plus by HFN66
8 hours ago
32 [M4F] - Online - A Game Of Would You Rather?
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by AuthorJWT
9 hours ago
45 [M4F] #Austin, Texas I'm out here looking for the opposite of casual.
M4F M4F
in Austin, TX
to r/R4R40Plus by 1peterpan1
9 hours ago
47 [M4F] #MA #Boston Let's talk!
M4F
in Boston
to r/R4R40Plus by Tiates
9 hours ago
41 [M4F] US - Seeking Fellow Overthinker for Deep Dives, Bad Jokes, and Occasional Spontaneity
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by sweetsexydad6983
10 hours ago
41 [M4F] #midwest- hardworking, tall, romantic, kinky, Insatiable, blue eyed single dad looking for a sweet, talkative, kinky, submissive, cuddly soulmate
M4F M4F
in Midwest
to r/R4R40Plus by gummibarely
10 hours ago
40s[M4F] searching for the elusive Venn diagram overlap!
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by HealthcareDirector88
11 hours ago
38 [m4f] looking for my fairy tale lady….this executive is tired of waiting for you! Yes you!
M4F
to r/R4R40Plus by jonevoix
13 hours ago
40 [M4F] California - Let’s send each other memes and laugh
M4F
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by throwawayfun451
13 hours ago
45 [M4F] #NY #Online chastity beta sub for aspiring or experienced Domme
M4F
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by guymev
13 hours ago
33 [M4F] Air Force officer looking for an #Online chat partner
M4F M4F
in online
to r/R4R40Plus by OhHeyMrThing
14 hours ago
44 [M4A] gay guy in NYC looking for new friends, and a good connection.
M4A M4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Whydidwomemlovejesus
14 hours ago
40 [M4F] #Harrisburg PA - Whats the difference between a brown-noser and an ass-kisser?
M4F
in Harrisburg, PA
to r/R4R40Plus by Responsible_Fix_3003
15 hours ago
45 [M4R] #KY #EST #Online Keep me company today
M4R
in Kentucky
to r/R4R40Plus by Chemical_Chip2905
15 hours ago
47 [M4F] #Midwest America — looking for my shy, quiet, introverted nerd
M4F
in Midwest
to r/R4R40Plus by PartEmbarrassed2021
15 hours ago
46 [M4F] #San Francisco - Seeking an amazing person.
M4F M4F
in San
to r/R4R40Plus by OldSchoolScoundrel5
16 hours ago
46 [M4F] #Missouri/America -- My letter in a bottle, cast out to sea...
M4F
in Missouri, MO
to r/R4R40Plus by Illuzionz518
16 hours ago
33[m4f] NY hey you yes you are you the ONE?
M4F M4F
in New York