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r/R4R40Plus

37,736 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Dec 27, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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to r/R4R40Plus by better-me-23
52 seconds ago
36 [F4M] Missoula, Montana- BBW seeking Asian men who like bigger girls.
F4M
in Missoula, MT
to r/R4R40Plus by Pitiful_Rice_1850
1 hour ago
31 [F4m] Guys, I really need remote part time w…o..r…k...
F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Laya1770
1 hour ago
34 [F4R] #Texas #US Psychonaut 🍃🍄 Seeking Deep connection.
F4R
in Texas
to r/R4R40Plus by Commercial-Bed-1194
2 hours ago
34[f4r] philippines - trying this again
F4R
in Pines, Philippines
to r/R4R40Plus by BubbleBrane
3 hours ago
40[F4M] Northeast USA
F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Antique-Apple7643
12 hours ago
40 [F4M] #Australia #online - already eaten all my Christmas sweets
F4M F4M
in Australia
to r/R4R40Plus by Excellent_Gur_423
18 hours ago
18 [F4M] #California - Rare ogling and groping opportunity
F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by Unusual-Reply4053
19 hours ago
41 [F4R] Talk nerdy to me! (Reddit penpal request)
F4R F4R
to r/R4R40Plus by SpitefullyHappy
20 hours ago
30 [F4M] #NC #Online - Is love a feeling, a choice, or a myth?
F4M F4M
in North Carolina
to r/R4R40Plus by CourtMedium5052
21 hours ago
37 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Seeking friendship with fun, mature individuals
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/R4R40Plus by ElkPsychological2236
23 hours ago
36 [F4M] - Find friends with similar interests
F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by AdagioUsed3325
1 day ago
42 [F4M] #CA Single Asian women looking for a partner
F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by West-Cry-9014
1 day ago
37 [F4M] #online Looking for a fun friend and in-tune partner in one person
F4M F4M
in online
to r/R4R40Plus by Severe-Wasabi-
1 day ago
38[F4M] #Texas A Christmas miracle
F4M
in Texas
to r/R4R40Plus by ariesthetic4985
1 day ago
39 [F4M] #Philippines - Lovely to meet you
F4M F4M
in Pines, Philippines
to r/R4R40Plus by Worldly-Path-3044
1 day ago
36[F4M] US - Friendship, then Relationship
F4M F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Excellent_Gur_423
1 day ago
18 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Ogling and groping opportunity
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/R4R40Plus by Excellent_Gur_423
1 day ago
18 [F4M] #California - Rare ogling and groping opportunity
F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by Severe-Wasabi-
1 day ago
38[F4M] #Texas A Christmas miracle
F4M
in Texas
to r/R4R40Plus by Excellent_Gur_423
1 day ago
18 [F4M] #California - Rare ogling and groping opportunity
F4M F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by Spicy_Shades_of_Red
1 day ago
41 [F4M] #San Francisco - Let’s make it our mission to find the best pastries and desserts in SF and then like, make out or something
F4M F4M
in San
to r/R4R40Plus by Excellent_Gur_423
1 day ago
18 [F4M] #California - Rare ogling and groping opportunity
F4M F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by OilOk7877
2 days ago
31 [F4M] who’s still up? Chat me
F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Independent_War7007
2 days ago
31 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Looking for a Confident, Kind Man 35+ to Share Great Conversations
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/R4R40Plus by Constant-Cake-1891
2 days ago
30[F4M] #LosAngeles #Kik - Seeking Mature, Fun Connection with a 35+ Man
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA