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r/R4R40Plus

36,662 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 7, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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to r/R4R40Plus by Desperate-Set2411
2 hours ago
44 [F4M] East Coast/Online looking for company/a friend/flirting/good conversations
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to r/R4R40Plus by cupcakesparklies
3 hours ago
45[F4R]FL/Online or RL.. The Struggle Bus is now boarding..
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to r/R4R40Plus by WorkingHospital7945
4 hours ago
33 [F4M] Looking for Sincere Friends
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to r/R4R40Plus by No-Wash6548
9 hours ago
33 [F4M] Looking for casual chat Hello F4M!
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to r/R4R40Plus by Sunflower8412
10 hours ago
35 [F4M] Europe and worldwide
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to r/R4R40Plus by EmeraldPaige
11 hours ago
44 [F4F] Florida Panhandle - looking for my bestie
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in Florida
to r/R4R40Plus by Chubby_yummy
21 hours ago
32[F4M] #Ghana, Africa
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in Ghana
to r/R4R40Plus by idahofarmgirl
22 hours ago
44[F4M] Idaho Montana Where’s my non-red voters at?
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in Idaho
to r/R4R40Plus by SingingRose_
1 day ago
32 [F4M] USA only - Seeking a practical, hands on lover for a purposeful long term relationship.
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to r/R4R40Plus by coffee-4lyfe
1 day ago
49 [F4M] #FtWorthTX/online Looking for my sunshine /ray of light/positive happy person
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in Fort Worth, TX
to r/R4R40Plus by Dometic-Goddess
1 day ago
36[F4M] #Branson/online. Seduce me?
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in branson
to r/R4R40Plus by littlekittendreams
1 day ago
43 [F4M] - #Georgia - Do you want to feel a connection too?
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in Georgia, US
to r/R4R40Plus by GoldenSky5544
1 day ago
32 [F4M] #online #USA Looking for platonic banter with someone who just gets me. I’d love to just click. Please be able to hold up your end of the convo :)
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in online
to r/R4R40Plus by Sunflower8412
1 day ago
35 [F4M] Europe and worldwide
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to r/R4R40Plus by keebler_o
1 day ago
39 [F4M] #SoCal-Let’s be spooky!
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in SoCal-Let’s
to r/R4R40Plus by sexfreecuddles
2 days ago
38 [F4M] Pittsfield, MA seeking a local, long term companion between 38 and 45yrs. Togetherness, hugs, cuddles, companionship. Sex is off the table let’s try to connect in all other ways.
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in Pittsfield, MA
to r/R4R40Plus by FuzzyBee666
2 days ago
40 [F4M] #SF BAY AREA, CA - Lookin to fall in love
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in California
to r/R4R40Plus by TrainingCandidate414
2 days ago
35 [F4M] #California Ambitious, Fun, and Ready for Real Romance
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in California
to r/R4R40Plus by Sunflower8412
2 days ago
35 [F4M] Europe and worldwide
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to r/R4R40Plus by Fizzleswiftie
2 days ago
37 [F4M] #HK #online - lifelong partner
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in HK
to r/R4R40Plus by Unlucky-Worker3084
2 days ago
43F4M (40-45) I don’t know what I want.
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to r/R4R40Plus by No-Wash6548
3 days ago
33 [F4M] Los Angeles / Online – Finding interesting friends
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to r/R4R40Plus by Sunflower8412
3 days ago
35 [F4M] Europe and worldwide
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to r/R4R40Plus by Worldly-Path-3044
3 days ago
36[F4M] US/ Anywhere Looking for an optimistic and positive partner to pursue a better life together
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to r/R4R40Plus by lavander_lace22
3 days ago
41 [F4M] Anywhere - looking to meet someone special
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