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r/R4R40Plus
36,236 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

R4R40Plus Moderators

Last updated: 10/19/2024
• darwitchm added 6 years ago
• VolatileDesires added 3 years ago (also mods r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution)

R4R40Plus Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

• Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

• Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

• Polite

Follow reddiquette!

• Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

• Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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35[F4M]CA Region - Looking for someone older than me, 40+, for meaningful interaction and chat!
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42 [F4M] #Chattanooga looking for a lasting connection so let’s see if we click!
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40 [f4m] Lonely single mom seeks daily chat friends.
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40 [F4M] #online #Australia - casual work day chat
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