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r/R4R40Plus

37,101 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 28, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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M4F F4R F4M M4R Austin, TX M4M R4R 48M Illinois UK SoCal location KY South Carolina T4M TM4M F4F TF4M NB4R TF4R Midwest USA TF4F CA Victoria, BC T4R NYC Kasilof, Alaska Oakhurst, California middle Ga Germany Oregon view more
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to r/R4R40Plus by comradejulia
4 hours ago
39 [F4F/R] #Anywhere - Finding comfort in the small things
F4F F4R
in Anywhere
to r/R4R40Plus by You-disappointment
10 hours ago
44 [F4M] US/NC I never learn my lessons
F4M
in North Carolina
to r/R4R40Plus by snooky0620
10 hours ago
47F4M East Alabama/West Georgia
F4M
in Georgia, US
to r/R4R40Plus by Remote-Work-5654
11 hours ago
36 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Looking for a friend to join me for beach walks
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/R4R40Plus by 2ndChanceAtLove
11 hours ago
40s[F4M] #Pennsylvania or #online to start ... Looking for that old fashioned kind of love
F4M
in Pennsylvania
to r/R4R40Plus by Worldly-Path-3044
12 hours ago
36[F4M] US/ Anywhere Looking for an optimistic and positive partner to pursue a better life together
F4M F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by spirite_dVenison9c
13 hours ago
26 F4M - Let's make this day more interesting together
F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by PriorBoysenberry9630
15 hours ago
48 [F4M] # Germany / UK/Online.. hilarious freckled fraggle in search of best mate
F4M F4M
in Germany
to r/R4R40Plus by holamicarino
19 hours ago
36 F4M Asia/Anywhere : Trying this again
F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by DearEmu32
1 day ago
42 [f4m] #florida #online Its me
F4M
in Florida
to r/R4R40Plus by AdagioUsed3325
1 day ago
42 [F4M] #CA Single Asian women looking for a partner
F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by ariesthetic4985
1 day ago
39 [F4M] #Philippines - Lovely to meet you
F4M F4M
in Pines, Philippines
to r/R4R40Plus by nadya_naddo
1 day ago
33 [F4M] #NY #NYC - Movie Friday (Sonic/Nosferatu/Kraven)
F4M F4M
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by PriorBoysenberry9630
1 day ago
48 [F4R] #Online - I have barrels of whisk...water, barrels of water
F4R F4R
in online
to r/R4R40Plus by buxom_baby
1 day ago
39 [F4R] #US #Online. Meat and Stuffing?
F4R
in US
to r/R4R40Plus by Laya1770
1 day ago
34 [F4R] Neurodivergent from Texas, seeking a Lover. I don't care where you are.
F4R
in Texas
to r/R4R40Plus by Difficult_Fig2964
1 day ago
34 [F4M] #Los Angeles - here to talk to someone.
F4M F4M
in Los
to r/R4R40Plus by Interesting-War330
2 days ago
43 [F4F/M] (Scotland) looking for meeting up, friends and fun
F4F F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Chubby_yummy
2 days ago
32 [F4M] #Ghana,Africa.
F4M F4M
in Ghana
to r/R4R40Plus by CrescentMoonVibes
2 days ago
40 [F4A] Anywhere - evening distraction.
F4A F4R
to r/R4R40Plus by Additional-Sugar637
2 days ago
32 [F4M] Canada only please, no interest in moving to the states right now…
F4M
in Canada
to r/R4R40Plus by Remote-Work-5654
2 days ago
36 [f4m] #Los Angeles, CA; Searching for new connections for friendly chats and exploring LA!
F4M F4M
in Los
to r/R4R40Plus by ariesthetic4985
2 days ago
39 [F4M] #Philippines - Lovely to meet you
F4M F4M
in Pines, Philippines
to r/R4R40Plus by sexfreecuddles
2 days ago
38 [F4M] Western Massachusetts seeking a local and older companion. No sex.
F4M
in Massachusetts
to r/R4R40Plus by Weird_Negotiation_34
2 days ago
41 [F4M] MN I hate dating
F4M
in Minnesota