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r/R4R40Plus

36,771 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 14, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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M4F F4R F4M M4R Austin, TX M4M R4R 48M Illinois UK SoCal location KY South Carolina T4M TM4M F4F TF4M NB4R TF4R Midwest USA TF4F CA Victoria, BC T4R NYC Kasilof, Alaska Oakhurst, California middle Ga Germany Oregon view more
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to r/R4R40Plus by plainslang
41 minutes ago
39 [f4m] NY/online - local OLD is, well, getting old
F4M F4M
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by Leilia23
3 hours ago
39[F4R] Looking for friends only
F4R
to r/R4R40Plus by West-Cry-9014
5 hours ago
37 [F4M] #online Looking for a fun friend and in-tune partner in one person
F4M
in online
to r/R4R40Plus by Life-You-6201
7 hours ago
31[F4M]#USA/Looking for friends to build friendship/Also like chatting
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in USA/Looking
to r/R4R40Plus by WalrusCritical4950
8 hours ago
39 [F4M] CA-Will definitely steal your 🍟
F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by Sunflower8412
11 hours ago
35 [F4M] Europe and worldwide
F4M F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Sudden_Platform964
11 hours ago
34F4M #CA - Looking for a genuine relationship, maybe a friend, maybe a partner
F4M F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by TrainingCandidate414
16 hours ago
35 [F4M] #Los Angeles Long-term and sincere contact! Chat
F4M F4M
in Los
to r/R4R40Plus by sw_sunshine
1 day ago
42F4R #SouthwestUS #Online Must Love Boardgames.
F4R F4R
in SouthwestUS
to r/R4R40Plus by Striking_Rules
1 day ago
39[F4M] #Scotland #Ireland #online Seeking companionship, conversation and mutual voice appreciation! (voice sample in post)
F4M F4M
in Ireland
to r/R4R40Plus by LuckAdventurous2790
1 day ago
[31] F4M 40+ in #Yorkshire #England 🇬🇧
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in Yorkshire, England
to r/R4R40Plus by RadiancePulsley_
1 day ago
21 [F4M] #Berlin #Online - I'm looking for guys with feet fetish who'd like to worship me
F4M
in Berlin, Germany
to r/R4R40Plus by Spicy_Shades_of_Red
1 day ago
41 [F4M] #San Francisco - let’s keep each other warm on these colder evenings
F4M
in San
to r/R4R40Plus by Sunflower8412
1 day ago
35 [F4M] Europe and worldwide
F4M F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by TrainingCandidate414
1 day ago
35 [F4M] #Los Angeles Long-term and sincere contact!
F4M F4M
in Los
to r/R4R40Plus by Scary-Orange1966
1 day ago
34 [F4M] #CA - Looking forward to making a good connection here!
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in California
to r/R4R40Plus by HealthyWeb5055
1 day ago
40 [F4M] #Maine - looking for someone to talk to
F4M
in Maine
to r/R4R40Plus by GlitterEcho
1 day ago
39 [F4M] #Australia - New and long lasting friends
F4M F4M
in Australia
to r/R4R40Plus by comradejulia
1 day ago
38 [F4R] #anywhere - looking for kindness at the end of the world
F4R
in Anywhere
to r/R4R40Plus by Relative-Cat2379
1 day ago
54 [F4M] Anywhere - Looking for chat buddy!
F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Scary-Orange1966
2 days ago
34 [F4M] #CA - Looking forward to making a good connection here!
F4M F4M
in California
to r/R4R40Plus by clumsylicious
2 days ago
39 [F4M] Anywhere - Too Old for Snapchat, Too Young for Life Alert
F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Kitty-Marks
2 days ago
47 [F4R] Anywhere - Fitness enthusiast and endorphin junkie looking for conversations.
F4R F4R
to r/R4R40Plus by TrainingCandidate414
2 days ago
35 [F4M] #Los Angeles Long-term and sincere contact!
F4M F4M
in Los
to r/R4R40Plus by Big_Background5742
2 days ago
34F4M Los Angeles/Online | Looking for a real connection
F4M F4M