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r/R4R40Plus

37,671 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Dec 22, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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to r/R4R40Plus by AcanthisittaBig8386
35 minutes ago
18 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Looking to meet up with an older guy for the first time
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/R4R40Plus by AcanthisittaBig8386
3 hours ago
18 [F4M] #LosAngeles - I want to be with an older guy
F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/R4R40Plus by Relevant_Village6269
8 hours ago
40 [F4M] Southeast Asia: Open to meaningful conversations
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to r/R4R40Plus by AcanthisittaBig8386
9 hours ago
18 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Looking for anything with a dad/older man
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/R4R40Plus by Glittering-fairy86
10 hours ago
38 [F4M] TN. Where’s the love of my life?
F4M
in Tennessee
to r/R4R40Plus by Laya1770
14 hours ago
34 [F4R] Neurodivergent from Texas, seeking a Lover/Deep connection. I don't care where you are. Planes are a thing.
F4R
in Texas
to r/R4R40Plus by ariesthetic4985
14 hours ago
39 [F4M] #Philippines - Lovely to meet you
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in Pines, Philippines
to r/R4R40Plus by Independent_War7007
15 hours ago
31 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Ready for Something Real with a Respectful Gentleman
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/R4R40Plus by Constant-Cake-1891
15 hours ago
30 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Mature Woman Looking for a Meaningful Bond
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/R4R40Plus by Forward-Writer-4110
15 hours ago
37 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Searching for a genuine, emotional connection with a partner
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/R4R40Plus by BubbleBrane
15 hours ago
40[F4M] Northeast USA
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to r/R4R40Plus by Terrible_Delivery84
15 hours ago
40 [F4M] UK, North East England
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to r/R4R40Plus by SurielTeaCompany
15 hours ago
36 [F4M] #Online - Seeking banter, fun, and solving the world's least important problems!
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in online
to r/R4R40Plus by Tasty-Unit9966
16 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for (F4M) 60yrs old looking for that special someone in my life doesn't matter if your young or old, I don't care about age gap image
(F4M) 60yrs old looking for that special someone in my life doesn't matter if your young or old, I don't care about age gap
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to r/R4R40Plus by West-Interaction7000
22 hours ago
40 [F4M] Asia/Online - Meaningful Conversations
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to r/R4R40Plus by Rocky_Park0211
1 day ago
49 [F4R] Germany - Living next to my son really is something
F4R
in Germany
to r/R4R40Plus by Cherry-Cola2222
1 day ago
37F4M Watching Hallmark Movies!
F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Leading_Estate6791
1 day ago
66 [F4M] #Washington DC - Older SBF Still Looking For A Connection in 2025
F4M
in Washington, DC
to r/R4R40Plus by Least-Corgi-4808
1 day ago
38f [f4m] Talk to donuts & eat them when they get outta line
F4M F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Ok-Answer-4970
1 day ago
40 [F4M] #nj/ny- seeking lifetime relationship with loyal east asian or native american man age 30 and older ✨
F4M F4M
in New York
to r/R4R40Plus by s_l_e_e_p_y_g_a_l
1 day ago
32 [F4M] iL / anywhere :: baked goods & spotify wrapped ✨
F4M
in Illinois
to r/R4R40Plus by ColorfulMonsteress
1 day ago
25F [F4M] [F4F] [F4A] #Online #Anywhere #Europe Open to whatever this might lead to
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in online
to r/R4R40Plus by ihearthemscreaming
1 day ago
43 [F4R] Single mom in TN looking for some new connections
F4R F4R
in Tennessee
to r/R4R40Plus by Pitiful_Rice_1850
1 day ago
31 [F4M] willing to be your all time talk buddy online in exchange of (?).
F4M
to r/R4R40Plus by Laya1770
1 day ago
34 [F4R] Neurodivergent from Texas, seeking a FWB/Lover/Relationship. I don't care where you are. Planes are a thing.
F4R
in Texas