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r/R4R40Plus

36,762 subscribers
A place where redditors 40 and over can get to know each other.

Platonic, looking for people with similar interests, single, married, swingers, open relationships, naughty from neglect, friendships, etc. All are welcome.

Perhaps you're younger than 40 but looking for the maturity and stability that can accompany being over 40. You are welcome as well! :)

Moderators

Updated Nov 12, 2024
u/darwitchm Active
Added 6 years ago
u/VolatileDesires Active
Added 3 years ago
Also moderates: r/DirtyR4R30Plus, r/BDSMPersonals30Plus, r/sexystories, r/CryoVolution

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

All Posters must be older than 30 years of age.

And obviously, everyone must be 18+ years of age. Thirty years old+ is somewhat arbitrary, but it's now the rule.

2

Post Format (Please Read)

All posts must be in this format: Age [x4x] #location - Title.
Example: 42 [M4F] #Austin #kik - Title
42 [F4M] #Wichita - Title.
All permutations [M, F, T, R, etc and any I may have forgotten] are acceptable.

3

Respectful

This is a sub for the mature. Bullying, harassment, insults and hate will not be tolerated. Please be nice.. or be gone...

4

Polite

Follow reddiquette!

5

Helpful

It's not easy meeting people, much less those with the same likes/dislikes as you. If you can be helpful to our fellow R4R40Plus subbers, please do so. Otherwise, think before you comment.

6

Fun

Enjoy yourself! Sarcasm is appreciated, but nasty comments are not :) Try to find the middle path.

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1 hour ago
41 [F4M] #San Francisco - let’s keep each other warm on these colder evenings
F4M
in San
to r/R4R40Plus by Sunflower8412
4 hours ago
35 [F4M] Europe and worldwide
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to r/R4R40Plus by TrainingCandidate414
4 hours ago
35 [F4M] #Los Angeles Long-term and sincere contact!
F4M F4M
in Los
to r/R4R40Plus by Scary-Orange1966
5 hours ago
34 [F4M] #CA - Looking forward to making a good connection here!
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in California
to r/R4R40Plus by HealthyWeb5055
9 hours ago
40 [F4M] #Maine - looking for someone to talk to
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in Maine
to r/R4R40Plus by GlitterEcho
9 hours ago
39 [F4M] #Australia - New and long lasting friends
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in Australia
to r/R4R40Plus by comradejulia
9 hours ago
38 [F4R] #anywhere - looking for kindness at the end of the world
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in Anywhere
to r/R4R40Plus by Relative-Cat2379
9 hours ago
54 [F4M] Anywhere - Looking for chat buddy!
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to r/R4R40Plus by Scary-Orange1966
21 hours ago
34 [F4M] #CA - Looking forward to making a good connection here!
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in California
to r/R4R40Plus by clumsylicious
22 hours ago
39 [F4M] Anywhere - Too Old for Snapchat, Too Young for Life Alert
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to r/R4R40Plus by Kitty-Marks
1 day ago
47 [F4R] Anywhere - Fitness enthusiast and endorphin junkie looking for conversations.
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to r/R4R40Plus by TrainingCandidate414
1 day ago
35 [F4M] #Los Angeles Long-term and sincere contact!
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in Los
to r/R4R40Plus by Big_Background5742
1 day ago
34F4M Los Angeles/Online | Looking for a real connection
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to r/R4R40Plus by Rocky_Park0211
1 day ago
48 [F4R] Hungary - First time to have some privacy in a few days
F4R
in Som, Hungary
to r/R4R40Plus by ScottPetersonsWiener
1 day ago
47 [F4M] Iowa/Minnesnowda/Missou
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in Iowa
to r/R4R40Plus by Laya1770
1 day ago
34 [F4A] Neurodivergent from Texas, seeking a Lover. I don't care where you are. Planes are a thing.
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in Texas
to r/R4R40Plus by Sunflower8412
1 day ago
35 [F4M] Europe and worldwide
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to r/R4R40Plus by Baby_Bunny_96
2 days ago
28 [F4M] #USA/Anywhere - Searching for my Future Partner and Husband.
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in USA
to r/R4R40Plus by Mia_fafafa
2 days ago
36[F4M]US/Anywhere-Looking for a friend or more?
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to r/R4R40Plus by lovelylifeforall
2 days ago
41 [F4M] #NE Oklahoma
F4M
in Oklahoma
to r/R4R40Plus by throwawaytofindplay
2 days ago
44 [f4m] #Miami - lets play
F4M
in Miami, FL
to r/R4R40Plus by EmeraldPaige
2 days ago
44 [F4F] Florida Panhandle - Looking for my bestie
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in Florida
to r/R4R40Plus by Rocky_Park0211
2 days ago
48 [F4R] Hungary - First time to have some privacy in a few days
F4R F4R
in Som, Hungary
to r/R4R40Plus by Sunflower8412
2 days ago
35 [F4M] Europe and worldwide
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to r/R4R40Plus by Brilliant_Bad_2971
2 days ago
35 [F4M] #USA - Finding a Lasting Connection
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in USA