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60 [F4M] #DC #MD #NoVA Nerdy curvy demisexual woman of color seeking nerdy, gentleman (45+) for friendship (w/possible relationship potential over time) involving nontraditional gender role dynamics
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Hidden__Gem is a female age 60 looking for a male in Northern Virgina, USA
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Hi. This post is detailed, out of respect for your time. Let's not spend misdirected energy chatting only to learn we are incompatible on key basics. (If you want to move fast, stop reading. This post isn't for you.)

I'm a gamer, crafter, sci-fi enthusiast, retired, cisgender African American woman who prefers non-traditional gender roles in relationships. I have a number of dominant personality traits, however, I am NOT a Domme. I am divorced. I have one adult son. I have had one post-divorce relationship which lasted two years (we parted amicably).

I want to build a friendship (perhaps more) over time with someone who may be in charge or directive in their work life, but would prefer to follow my lead more in personal matters. I love the contrast of a man being strong in the world, but cuddly in my arms.

Things I need you to be: an honest, single, monogamous, 45 , nerdy, gentleman who finds strong women attractive. You are fully vaxxed and boosted, and willing to wear a mask in crowded indoor public spaces. You are a DDF, non-smoker who lives within one hour's drive of the nation's capital. You have enough time and control over your schedule to make a new acquaintance.

Things I want you to be: masculine, submissive, shy or introverted and possessing a sense of humor. Accepting of me being a person of faith (It's the right choice for me. I'm not interested in telling other people what to choose.) I prefer interracial dating.

My physical details: I am 5'5" tall, 202 lbs (size 1X), curvy build, 44DD. I get compliments on my legs and my smile. I have a bit of a tummy but am not BBW. We can exchange SFW pictures once we've chatted a bit. I am fully vaxxed and boosted. I wear masks in public. I am a drug free, non-smoker who rarely drinks. I have an invisible disability (that has weakened my immune system among other things) which I will tell you about as we get to know each other.

My outlook is generally upbeat, humorous, and spiritual. I am not compatible with negative mindsets, or perspectives that denigrate others based on their belief systems. I am NOT politically conservative.

My personality is nerdy, nurturing, warm, protective, affectionate, resilient, playful and creative.

I communicate in a direct, candid manner. I'm proactive when dealing with issues/conflict. I'm not compatible with passive/aggressive or patronizing communication styles.

My personal interests include: PC gaming, crafting, weaving maille (armor, jewelry etc.), cosplay, pinball, nerd conventions, movies (action, superhero, comedy, sci-fi, musicals etc.) reading, dancing (I don't claim to be good at it๐Ÿ˜†), painting miniatures, trying new foods, learning new crafts or hobbies.

Things I like (friendship wise): warm hugs, engaging conversation. Quality time doing simple things together matters more to me than doing things in busy crowded settings (gaming stores and nerd conventions etc. excepted๐Ÿ˜).

Things I like (relationship wise): If we develop a dating relationship, I'd want us to explore and navigate this together. Overall, I'm into softer extra gentle interactions that are female led.

I'm friendly and welcoming of messages. (Tell me your favorite food when you reply so I'll know you read this far.) I won't respond if we are mismatched on core items I've described above.

Throughout my life, I've been a person on whom others rely. Now that I'm retired I have time to slow down and appreciate/care for someone who's interested in focusing their attention on me a bit. Are you that person?

Please use a DM should you decide to reply. Thank you.

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