Hey everyone. I'm a 39 year old female searching for the right man. He's out there somewhere!

What attributes am I searching for? Here are the answers:

-Doesn't want children. This is very important.

-Male resident of USA, ages 34-49.

-Quiet, shy, antisocial like me but happy, energetic and cheerful sometimes.

-Relaxed, goes with the flow, not prone to emotional extremes but positive and content most of the time. Phlegmatic personality.

-BBM? (Big beautiful man), but beauty not required. I'm a thick woman and I appreciate a big, cuddly guy to compliment my stature.

-Loves video games and huge into nerd culture. Is typically open to trying new games or enjoying old favorites. Is not pretentious or elitist or hard-core but just a casual gamer. Table top gaming is okay but preferably not a cornerstone in your life. We're antisocial, remember?

-Doesn't mind the occasional bike rides, hike or walk or gym workout but not obsessed with physical fitness or being outdoors. Generally more of an indoor person. Thirty minutes a day of exercise is more than enough for you.

-Foodie who loves to cook and try new recipes. Loves vegetables and eating healthy sometimes.

-Very clean, very hygienic. Flosses, brushes and showers on a regular basis. Not afraid to pee sitting down on toilet. Never pees in shower, EVER! (I dated a guy who did that, no thanks!!!)

-A little bit in touch with his feminine side, he's sweet, sensitive and romantic but not clingy or needy. Doesn't mind doing artsy activities on occasion like going to a ballet or artistic performance.

-Enjoys old black and white films and television. The maturity and intelligence to enjoy horror like Alfred Hitchcock without attempting to blend them with real life. Is not prone to evil or malevolent temptations. A good and moral person. Understands the difference between fantasy and reality. Posesses the ability to watch a vampire film without desiring to be a vampire.

-Is intelligent and practical and not overly complex. Understands philosophy but is not philosophical by nature. Is scientifically inclined. Is never snobby or pretentious about said intellect. Never wastes time showing off how knowledgeable he is about something just to feel superior.

-Smart, sensible, somewhat hard working, great with money. Financially sensible. Doesn't go into debt or make impulsive purchases.

-Not into drugs or driving under the influence. Intelligent and responsible. Never does anything blatantly stupid or idiotic.

I could probably go on but I think this sums up quite well the type of man I'm hoping for. If this sounds like you and you think we could have chemistry feel free to send a message introducing yourself.