Hello, and welcome to my mind! I hope that You will read all of this before replying. I want you to understand my mind, at least a little, so maybe you can touch my heart?

I am not looking for online-only, I want to meet you "in the flesh", so I need You to live close to me. I am only interested in You if you live in the 559 area north of Fresno, like Coarsegold or Bass Lake or Oakhurst so we can meetup whenever we want to. I live in Oakhurst. We can chat on Reddit a bit, to get acquainted and see if we mesh well together, and then make plans to meet in-person.

I prefer to meet someone who is single, like I am, and has no partner or S/O. I am mostly monogamous and prefer to have just one partner at a time, something I hope that You will share with me, but you probably won't. That's ok, it is my intention to compliment your life, not rule it. You will find that I am more dedicated to your happiness than most men would be. If you picked up the phone and call me up because you had a bad case of the Blues, I'd be with you in no time at all. I'm not interested in anyone the age of 21. Many Redditors are only looking for online interactions, but I am not. I want to be able to look into your eyes and hold your hand when we talk... that is In-Person!

OK, I have had girlfriends. I have also had experiences with men and have had boyfriend relationships... and I've met Trans Women on two occasions and a Trans man once, as well as one CD. I want to meet someone who's mind is as open as mine is, someone who does not judge someone by what the person has between his (or her) legs. You should look up the word "Pansexual" to better understand me.

If you look at the many different posts I write, you might become confused and wonder about me. Don't. Instead, ask me about it. Don't judge me without knowing all the facts. My mission, should you accept it, is to find someone to be with, to not be alone. So, I post in many different subreddits, hoping to attract just one special person. The more postings I write, the better my chance of finding my match is. What's so bad about that? Some Redditors think it's "creepy" for someone to want to meet in-person, they think reddit is only for online, anonymous chatting and comments. Why? Years ago, you would have to spend hours and hours in some sleezy bar or nightclub, waiting around to meet some stranger to go home with. I like to get acquainted with a person, learn about each other and see if we mesh well together BEFORE we make plans to meet in-person. All we need is honesty and truth to make it work... the 2 building blocks of a cool friendship and an awesome relationship.

I am geared towards friendship, establishing a relationship that is more than a hookup, but if it is to be just one time then so be it. Perhaps a FWB to start would also be good with you? If that leads to more, then I look forward to fun adventures and more to share with You. If you like all of this and you want to try me on for size, then let me know. We can get acquainted in a DM and then make plans to meet in-person. DM me and you can have a fun-loving man right now!