Hi. I'm a gamer, crafter, sci-fi enthusiast (about to be 60 years old) retired African American woman who prefers non traditional gender roles in relationships. In the past, when I've chatted with men who say they are interested in role reversal (RR) relationships, I found that what most of these men really wanted was a femdom relationship.
I'm not a Domme and do not wish to be. And I'm NOT looking for a relationship right now. (I'm taking a mutually agreed upon (amicably) pause in a 2 year relationship because our schedules and priorities are not currently in sync. He knows I'm posting here).
I'm also heading (fairly soon) into a major surgery with possibly several months of recovery. I thought I'd use the down time to learn more about men's thoughts/expectations when it comes to RR relationships.
To me, RR means a relationship with someone who may be dominant and directive in their work life, but would follow my lead in personal matters. They would prioritize focusing their time and attention on me, be comfortable deferring to me re: major relationship decisions (in a collaborative/consenting way) and be someone I can nurture, care for, and respect etc.
Gentlemen, what does RR mean to you? What elements are a must for it to be satisfying for you? If you could share only one insight with an RR minded woman in your life, what would that point of information be?
I'm friendly and welcoming of open honest communication on this topic. I have no interest in receiving messages that are sexual, kink centered or fetishized. Thanks for reading to the end of my post. If you choose to respond, please send a DM.
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