I love meeting new people, hearing from their perspectives and learning new bits of trivia from them. I'm tall and thick with expressive blue eyes. I've been a message in a bottle floating out there in Oceania for 10 years. I will speak incantations that mesmerize you and make you feel seen in a way that fires a tiny punctum into the core of you.

I’ve dated and had relationships and friendships with something else and the worst of these–a situationship. I tried all sorts of configurations and I’ve felt passion and sensuality, but to get to me you want to find a path through the thorns grown up around the palace of my mind.

Things I find extremely sexy in others:

Extraordinary intelligence and a means by which he communicates it.

Someone who follows through on his word.

Self-examination and reflection, and letting go a bit of ego

Seeing value in and caring for himself, so his cup overflows into others

Kindness, confidence, and straightforwardness

A wicked sense of humor and adventurous outlook

I cook like a daemon and have lots of chef friends who provide food to me that is so good I get emotional and sometimes am even a little jealous of myself.

I am a gullible fool in that sometimes inspirational quotes do actually inspire me.

There is nothing better than clean cool sheets after a hot shower.

I have accumulated 6 Steve Zahn sightings so far.

I have a mouth like a sailor. I refrain in professional settings and around small children, but in private there aren’t words colorful enough for me to express myself. I’m going to have to revert to archaic phrases to satisfy my need for expressiveness.

I LOVE to sing…badly, but I mostly do it in the car.

Learning is my lifeline and keeps me interested in remaining on this planet. I’ll try new experiences once and will give ANY movie 20 minutes to hook me.

I love me, and on days I don’t, I work on loving me. That’s what you’re competing with, not some other guy.