Hi! - Now that you are here, read on!

Cutting right to the chase. I am looking for a serious, committed, supportive, monogamous relationship with someone who is emotionally available, and straight.

I am focused on the PWN, generally Oregon and Washington, and specifically the Willamette Valley area between Portland / Vancouver and Eugene, but long distance can be fun…and I can drive, or fly.. Soo

I am completely down to worship you as the Demi-Goddess that you undoubtedly are…eventually, but first there needs to be an emotional connection. I suspect some people may see that as corny or hokey. IDGAS!

I AM looking for an intimate relationship (not necessarily physical/sexual in nature), but intimacy comes with trust and a connection, which SHOULD take time to build. I would be well chuffed to just talk, learn about you, and see where it goes. At the worst, we may become the best of friends…though *mates* would be better.

I am not focused on: Age, color, size, stability (mental or otherwise), defect or fault (perceived, imagined, or real) - I will accept the right person for whom they are.

If you make it to the end (this a BOOK), and are interested in seeing if we vibe, please reach out.

If YOU are remotely interesting (even if you don't believe you are), are looking for someone to cherish, adore and hold YOU UP in the light and the dark, and willing to be genuine and honest, I would love to get to know you.

I am not interested in playing games. I ask you respect me as I will respect you!

If you do reach out (you can try DM’n me...I likely can’t reciprocate because I'm still a probi in reddit, but chats work) please include the name of the band at the bottom of this post.

In no order of importance:

I am a straight male.

I am single...and an adult (no hate intended at all)...so I don't live with my mom or 4 other people in a 2 bedroom.

I work in IT.. so I am gainfully employed, and don’t live in a cardboard box. Not that this has always been true, or bad. We all have our challenges, some more than others. I've been lucky to get out of the cardboard box life. For those still there…keep your head up and your legs moving..

I am not a Lumbersexual (again, no hate intended) who oils their beard ( but I do have a beard...type thing) nor makes homebrew from random stuff in my backyard and hair from the bathtub drain (for the fermentation properties...I would .. guess?!?)

I am a person of color. That color is chestnut brown. I am biracial. If that matters…STOP HERE, move on, have a great day!

I am what many would characterize as BIG. That means I have...like 2 Dad Bods. I can’t say I am "actively" working on it but I have dropped 44lbs in the last 9 months…so there is that (I am actually very willing to adjust that mind set as needed)...If that matters to you …cool cool cool, have a lovely day.

I previously lived in Japan for 11yrs. I have a slightly more open attitude towards other cultures, languages and belief systems, than some, here in the states (no hate for those that do not or have not had the opportunity to expand their experiences).

I love music, food, laughter, cooking, stimulating conversation, Motorcycles', gaming, pets, ceramics and other things fine art, Film, TV and literature of all genres…except Horror… cause I am prone to loud outbursts of screaming (and yes.. I have been known to talk at the screen or TV…as we do...since they can hear me…right?!)…but I am always on a quest to expand my horizons, so I'm game to learn…If you're game to hold my hand and tell me “it’s all NOT going to be OK…”

I have some mobility issues after getting crushed on a motorcycle, which makes a number of outdoor activities a challenge, but no longer in a chair, and I do enjoy getting out and doing things, if THAT is your jam…It just takes a bit longer, and some planning.

And lastly, as an attempt to express the kind of person and partner I am, I invite you to check out: “King” by Blue October - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jJEa7xfJyDE

If you dig the sentiment, even if I’m not your guy, but want to make a loyal, uplifting connection, smash some gonks, swap playlists, grab a coffee and watch people, or yell at the stupid people walking into a CLEARLY haunted house..…you can hit me up too. Need as many friends as I

can get.

Peace and Love. Keep your head up