First of all, I am wide open to relocation. So. No matter where you are, there is potential. Dating in the short term might be a pain, but give me a chance. I’m resourceful. More than anything else, I want a bold and confident woman who can hold her place beside me and keep me grounded in the reality of her love. I want a woman who knows what she is about and never makes me guess what is on her mind. No shrinking violets, please. No timid mice. At the same time. I desire a woman who is kind and nurturing. A sweetness of demeanor with a presumption of good intentions will be appreciated.
I’m seeking a relationship of deep Intimacy. I want us to truly know each others’ hearts. I want complete trust and no jealousy. Intimacy means play time with no limits except our agreed boundaries. Can you communicate your desires? I want to fulfill them in an open and adventurous spirit. Sex at my age has some challenges. Can you bear with me? Communication is SO important. It requires the work of two. I want a woman who can hold up her end, taking the lead if necessary, and helping me understand when I don’t ”get it” I will do the same. I am kind, but I don’t have great filters. I am a helpful and resourceful problem solver but I try to remember what I CAN’T fix. I respect mostly everyone including myself. Those who don’t respect me get left behind. I am more honest than is strictly necessary and I want to be honest with you. But I have learned that honesty is a dangerous thing. Honesty requires a safe space. If the anticipated result of honesty is rejection or anger, lying begins. So be nice to your truth tellers. They are taking a risk. My personality, I have been told. Is friendly but a little nerdy. I have an intellectual style that puts some people off because they think I’m trying to impress. I’m not. I just use the words that come to mind. I don’t know how I got that way. I am just a bit of a curmudgeon and I like to observe how screwed up modern life is and my opinion of why. But I try to be good natured about it. I am not an angry person but as I get excited my volume tends to go up. I can be shushed. I watch news vids on YouTube and I have mostly liberal political opinions. I’m not a big go-and-doer. Mostly a homebody but an interesting public event will draw me out. I don’t like spending money and I don’t have much to spend. I will really appreciate your willingness to go Dutch Treat. Im not a morning person and am at my best when I sleep til 11.
Will you like me? I don’t know. I’ll try not to worry and just be myself.