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I am going through and divorce the will be final in about 5 weeks. There is no hope of saving the marriage...I have tried. The short of it is that she is nerodivergent and I don't think she ever fully connected with me or our kids. She just will not be fully happy....ever. I tried my best and I know that I can wake up every morning and look in the mirror and I can look at my boys and know I did all I could. It is a weird place to be in finding myself a single dad, having primary custody and being the one that is getting child support. I will survive.
I am however finding that I am and have been lonely. She and I have had a sexless and emotionless marriage for the past 4 years ( we have been married for 14)
I would love to a woman to chat with and see if we can at least be friends. I have learned at my age to have to expectations and just go with the flow. I am willing to talk about anything at all.... if you're comfortable with it, so am I. At this point I have been through enough therapy to know who i am and to know exactly what I want in a woman depending on the relationship that forms.
If you are interested in a 46 year old, blue eyed redhead, with a dad bod lets chat.
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