Life is weird, isn't it? We get older yet we still feel young and continue to enjoy being active and having fun. Sometimes, parts don't work like they used to but that doesn't negate our desire or our ability to please... just requires innovative thinking. With age comes experience and (hopefully) the wisdom to appreciate more all that life has to offer.

I'm an average looking guy, hair cropped short with a silvery goatee and a little thicker in the waist than I'd like. I'm not Steamy McDreamy Hotstuff... but neither am I Quasimodo Beerbelly Dooflatchie. I am me, Dave of the Dead Dick, and totally okay with it. My confidence and self-esteem are not centered around physical perfection but instead on knowing that all my flaws, along with all my gifts, made me.

Now let's talk about you. You like dogs, that's important. I volunteer with a rescue and can't imagine being compatible with someone who doesn't like dogs. You have these absolutely wicked thoughts while in meetings or at social events that would get you the most scandalized looks (and a visit from HR if at work) if anyone could hear them. You binge shows you like and don't care if anyone else likes them. You are not a music snob but can and will enjoy all kinds of tunes based on your mood and sometimes serendipity. You are comfortable snuggling under a blanket and reading on a rainy winter day... or splashing thru the puddles laughing on a rainy summer day. You believe it is far better to laugh than be angry.

Why am I looking? Been married for 22 years but last time we were intimate was in 2013. So it's been 9 years with no physical intimacy of any sort beyond the daily hug and peck on the lips. She told me several years ago that I should find what I needed somewhere else but just to not tell her about it. I do miss sex, of course, but what I miss more than anything else is being desired and intimacy. I'm not a cake-eater (though I very much love eating pie, wink wink), not looking to change your situation or mine, just hoping to find my special person.

If you made it all the way thru that rambling wreck of a post then perhaps you are intrigued enough to reach out to me. Until then, I'll be over here polishing my horn. (There go those wicked thoughts!)

Cheers,

Dave