Hi.

I'm a 39 year old female searching for my soul mate. I prefer that individual be single, not recently divorced, and be between the ages of 34-49 and reside in the United States. Most importantly I ask that you please not want to have any children. If we develop a strong bond, future adoption is possible to consider but it is very important to me that we not bring any new babies into the world.

Let me tell you about myself. I am a very romantic person and very affectionate. The type of relationship I see myself in can best be imagined by Wendy and Jack Torrence from the Shining, minus the cigarettes and alcohol. Imagine Jack and Wendy (pre-insanity) before they went to the hotel. We're just very simple, maybe a little quirky with shelves full of old and new books because we love to read and reading is a daily activity for our family. Reading and literacy are the cornerstones of our family ethic.

I value freedom to pursue one's dreams even when others believe it to be impossible. I greatly value freedom and education and college. I desire to be with someone who doesn't mind if I attend college in my spare time. That person respects me and supports me in my pursuit of achieving my educational goals.

Physically I am not attractive in a conventional sense of modern American beauty. I have physical flaws but I'm hoping to find someone who see passed all that. I tend to be most comfortable with thick men who are slightly overweight since I'm a hefty girl myself. I'm not huge but small and frail are not words that have ever described me. I have red hair and green eyes, I am 5'7. I have acid reflux and other dietary sensitivities so I need someone who can tolerate me eating a special diet.

I'm lonely and I desire to find my sweet, non violent, non alcoholic Jack Torrence. If you think you might be him please send me a message as I'd love to get to know you. Send a message of introduction. I look forward to hearing from you.