Recently turned 42. It's been many months now since the wife has separated. It has been a deteriorating marriage, sexless for many years, during which I have sexted and exchanged nudes online and in chats, justifying it as making up for the lack of intimacy in the marriage. I used to fantasize about all the girls I'm going to have sex with and thought that would atleast be the bright side of being single. Reality has turned out quite different. I suffer from chronic social anxiety and am introverted. Using my charms to woo a girl in this extroverted world is turning out to be a daunting task. The few interactions I have had on Tinder and Bumble have lead nowhere. I am fast beginning to accept the fact that I will end up having been intimate with just the one person my whole life...a depressing thought! i don't know if anyone can relate to that...perhaps I should learn to accept that and move on. The only connections I've made in the past few years have been online... If this strikes a chord...any chord, happy to chat. Please DM.
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