Turned out she was just savagely Quokking.
She came out of the room, and said: "That was one hell of a Quokk."
I said: "Musta been, woman, 'cause your ass can barely walk."
I’d like to start by saying something about the type of woman I am interested in knowing, and perhaps along the way you will have also gleaned something about me between the lines. Chemistry and attraction might go without saying, but what I am looking for are the deeper, more global qualities that speak to overall character: qualities that engender comfort and trust naturally. Without these, there’s no stability. And without stability nothing stays good for very long, does it? Kindness, compassion, maturity, warmth, consistency, an easy smile, a supremely playful disposition, a general sense of calm and composure -- these begin to tell the story of the characteristics and capacities that generate heat and make me melt -- in brief, a good heart. Given this, much can be negotiated.
I truly enjoy, and crave, the company of highly intelligent, well-educated, refined, sensitive, aware, three-dimensional, calm, MATURE, thoughtful, polished, open-minded and creative women. Despite maturity being high on the list, a woman who has a healthy disregard for the more prescribed trappings of maturity would be most welcome. You are content, self-content, and would rather whisper than shout it. You are over 40, because a shared sensibility brings it's own effortless rewards.
A brief aside regarding age: I do understand that that there are women who prefer older men. If this is you, and my words speak to you, please do say hello. The above is a preference, because I absolutely love women in my own age group. But I am certainly aware that in matters of the heart, be it friendship OR romance, one can never prescribe....
When I am genuinely inspired, I am at my best, and I know the same is true for you. For myself, when I am at my best, I can promise a love that will give us wings on the good days, sustain us on the bad days, and generally content us on the days in between. I have no doubts that when you are at YOUR best, it will appear that the sun rises and sets only by your command. What I have said is not hyperbole. I have no will anymore to share anything less than my best -- it is soul-crushing. My last few relationships have left me feeling one-dimensional at best, and this is anathema to everything that I am, have been, and hope to be. Anything less than eventual plasma temperature, and I will languish...and I am so very tired of languishing.
A little about me: I was trained as a Ballet dancer. I took my first degree in Classics (Greek and Latin), my second in Mathematics, and my third in Chemistry. I am literate in 7 languages, and it appears that Italian is the one I return to most often (ask me about My plans re Italy). I am extremely playful, but underneath I am very much a serious and intense Scorpio -- in the good ways, I promise. I am 5'11'', 155 lbs, with a dancer's body. My hair is long and curly; but I blow dry it, and this gives me crazy hair like Einstein, which I have not cut for 10 years now.
Something a little deeper about me: My relationship with the written word is a deep, unique and interesting one. All the more so because I hated reading as a child and teenager: I was too busy running, jumping, going fast, and getting dirty. In 11th grade we had to read "To Kill a Mockingbird" -- I loved it. In 12th grade we had to read "Wuthering Heights" -- again, I couldn't put it down. During the Summer after 12th grade I read "100 Years of Solitude", "The Idiot" and "Crime and Punishment". I felt the rise in body temperature, but the infection had not taken full hold yet. On Winter break during my 2nd year of college, a random reach of the hand in the university library -- after a quick mention in class of this guy named Nietsche -- and it was all over. I had never seen words and ideas handled like this (and this was in translation). I changed my major from Chemistry to Classics (Greek and Latin), and threw myself headlong into language and Literature (no worries -- I went back and became a Chemist and Mathematician, too). I pursued the languages I did precisely because I could not bear the idea of reading in translation. I've read more than is humanly possible -- this, too, is not hyperbole -- I've read the best, and better still. At 28 I read Kazantzakis' "Odyssey: A Modern Sequel", and it closed the circle on my literary pursuits. Ten years and 50 billion words. I was satisfied. I was done. How often do you hear that? That's not to say I don't read anymore, but now every time I open a book, the words just stare at me with puzzled looks on their faces which say "why are you here -- haven't you seen enough?" To which I usually respond, "Yes, I've seen enough. I'm not hear to glean -- I just wanted to say hello and see a familiar face again".
Having said this, I will mention one book: Paradise Lost, by Milton. You've never read as beautiful, as simple, as clean, as erotic, as poignant and as transcendent a description of the love between two people as that which appears in Paradise Lost. If the interaction between Adam and Eve in Paradise Lost doesn't revive your faith in the power of mutual love and respect, I doubt anything will. And that's just the love story. Six thousand lines of the most consistently sustained brilliant poetry ever written. I'd love to read it aloud to you.
Any references you may see in my previous posts to DDlg, etc. is strictly theatre/theatrical persona, not the person. I am not a Daddy, I am not a Dom, I am not a sub. In fact, I DETEST power differentials. The only difference that has ever existed for me regarding men and women is one of genitalia. I've done my share of ass-spanking, hair-pulling, manhandling, etc. -- to me this all falls under the SPECTRUM of normal sexual behavior. If Kink IS important to you, no worries, I am more than happy to discuss it; and happy to accommodate, if I can. Should we get that far, that is.
Please message me if...If you DESPISE the phrases "living life to the fullest", "love to laugh", "partner in crime", "soul-mate", "glass half-full", "work hard and play hard", "work in progress", "feeds my soul".
Be Safe. Be Well
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 2 years ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/R4R40Plus/c...